tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2237446155472519339.post7212196802240047649..comments2024-03-28T12:16:05.570-04:00Comments on Rhonda's Escape: My 10-year-old son enjoys wearing girls’ underwearrhonda's escapehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16333998589746919994noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2237446155472519339.post-12019457946318945892022-01-13T20:29:46.127-05:002022-01-13T20:29:46.127-05:00"because we are kin" I still have no clu..."because we are kin" I still have no clue? Please get some help for your issues. <br /><br />I do not make up the issues, I only relay the question and published a very insightful answer - "[to] raise any child. you listen, love, support"; is there fault in that answer? rhonda's escapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16333998589746919994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2237446155472519339.post-91956880033088300472022-01-13T20:17:42.626-05:002022-01-13T20:17:42.626-05:00Thanks Velma for clean insight.
Thanks Velma for clean insight. <br /><br />rhonda's escapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16333998589746919994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2237446155472519339.post-53757171948409318982022-01-13T19:11:18.125-05:002022-01-13T19:11:18.125-05:00Rhonda,
You have done nothing wrong, distasteful...Rhonda,<br /> You have done nothing wrong, distasteful, immoral or ILLEGAL by linking and discussing in your blog the article in the Guardian. If such journalism were somehow banned, you would have never seen the parent article.<br /> This writer has assuredly had lived a very rough history. His diatribe of his problems along with a terrible, troubled family history of similar abuses is a is classic in the psychological world.<br /> The ultimate causality of this kind of behavior this person has experienced is:<br /> REPRESSION OF THE NATURAL PSYCHO-SOCIAL AND PSYCHO-SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT OF THE HUMAN CHILD. This REPRESSION is referred to as <br /> POISONOUS PEDAGOGY instilled by SHAME BASED BEHAVIOR (a term by Dr. John Bradshaw, a fellow sufferer of, and writer about overcoming the shame and repression of such ritualized abuse). <br />In one of Bradshaws' books, (Healing the Shame That Binds You, by Dr. John Bradshaw) he relates how ASHAMED he felt when he had to urinate within the earshot of the visiting pastor-AND 'would the pastor think NEGATIVELY of HIM for making the tinkling sound'? <br /><br /> It is indeed ironic in an almost CRIMINAL SENSE that the first thing that you expound on are the childs parents somehow are sexualizing their child by allowing him to express a symbolic, subconscious drive. <br />NOT TRUE.<br />THEY-the parents- are doing precisely the RIGHT THING. The child is simply ACTING OUT an issue from his subconscious mind. <br />It is YOU and your own comments (which mirror YOUR PARENTS own repressive values which has a lot to do with your own problems) which are TOTALLY OUT OF LINE.<br />My question to you is when are you going to do your own REAL RESEARCH for your own PSYCHOLOGICAL BENEFIT and cease this 'pseudo religious' sniping.<br />Here is a start into John Bradshaw. <br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5q2tZa1gp8Q<br /><br />Velma<br /> <br />Velmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02145613265114657097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2237446155472519339.post-86397816567699195722022-01-13T13:22:53.783-05:002022-01-13T13:22:53.783-05:00No child- male, female, trans/cd- needs to wear g ...No child- male, female, trans/cd- needs to wear g string/thong underwear. That is disturbing. As members of the LBGTQ community, we need to avoid the sexualization of children, even if its just talking about their underwear on a blog. We have millions if not billions of "haters," and this subject matter (specifically when it comes to children) gives the "haters" way too much ammunition to call us creepy, and so forth. Talking about grown men wearing women's underwear is OK. Minors no. I'd take this post down if you care about your reputation. It's strange, inappropriate, and an embarrassment. I was molested as a minor by someone you knew a long time ago, and my father is a sexually deviant person who breaks into houses, hotel rooms, and retail stores- to steal women's underwear. He also exposes himself in public but being the child of millionaire parents he avoided having to go on the sex offender registry. Me being molested and having the embarrassment of a criminal cross dresser of a father makes me cringe when reading your posts. Some of your posts make me feel validated and normal, because we are kin, and I am gay. But some rub me the wrong way, big time. You probably wondered why I pranked you with the "repent for your sins" crap well now you know. I don't like or dislike you but wow, shits weird if I'm being honest. I am sorry for being blunt but thats just who I am, thank the bizarre family i have for making me the mental case I am today. Take care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com