Shopping has always been one of my favorite activities. On trips to "town" with my mother we had a routine of stores to stop and shop. They all knew my mother well (small town) and the shopping bug landed squarely on me to continue the tradition.
My first excursions into the ladies section alone was filled with trepidation. Several times I even visited small boutiques, not dressed and ask if I could come back later. The response was always "of course". As my fear subsided, even at big department stores, I made an effort to get to know the sales associates. There was one high-end shoes store in Palm Beach, Charles Jourdan, where "Carol" would call me when my favorite heels were on sale. I still have several pairs of those beloved beautiful heels.
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| 2002 Shopping In Palm Beach Wearing My CJ Pumps |
Now working retail I see the fear from the other side and make sure all customers are welcome. We see all customer as potential sales; the goal. Several time I have waited on men cross-dressed or men shopping for themselves. I introduce myself and explain they are welcome and will always be treated with respect.
Got any shopping experiences / stories you are willing to share?
Love the pumps do you have them in pink? lol xoxox SissyMmarsha
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OMG! Charles Jourdan was the to-die-for shoe before Loubies or Jimmy Choos...
ReplyDeleteNever managed to snag a pair, but do keep my eye out for vintage stock. --J
Yes, they were the big deal in 90's . Oprah (remember her) talked about CJs on her show. She said they had a larger toe box (my experience too) and fit so well. I even save a couple of the red boxes and CJ tissue paper. My favorite pumps.
DeleteYears ago I saw a pair of black platform pumps at Payless that I just HAD to have, but wanted to try them on first (without being noticed, if possible) to make sure I bought the right size. I waited until the site was about empty and had just taken off my shoe and sock when the female SA rounded the corner, saw my stocking covered foot and said "you came prepared" and gave me some alone time to try them on. As I checked out, we had a nice conversation about the popularity of the specific shoes I was buying!
ReplyDeleteSeveral years ago I saw a pair of uniquely patterned pantyhose at Nordstrom that I just HAD to add to my collection. Unable to come up with an excuse as to why I as a man was buying these hose, I took them to the register and confessed to the female SA that they were for me - and the world did not come to an end haha! We then had a delightful conversation about the quality of the Nordstrom brand of hosiery and the wide variety of styles and shades. It was simply 2 people discussing an item of clothing. And it was wonderful!
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