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Wednesday, July 22, 2026

What to Wear - PBCHRC Event

 A Summer Event Look



By now I hope you have gotten your ticket to our Saturday event (or considered a donation).  I love what we do and very proud to be on the board of The Palm Beach County Human Rights Council (PBCHRC). All of our efforts go toward  "ENDING DISCRIMINATION. PROMOTING EQUALITY."  We still understand what WOKE means. 

2026 Summer Soiree -  Tickets


See Monday's post for more information. A few  years back  we were at an outdoor sculpture garden and finished just in time as storms rolled in.  This year we are mostly inside, with AC, at a beautiful venue. I am looking forward; "All dressed up with somewhere to go."  

The suggested Attire, "Croquet Whites". Had I not been at an even at this venue just a few months ago I would not have fully appreciated the wearing of "white".  A sea of beautiful white cocktail dresses.  So I dug around in my close and came up with a mostly white blazer and matching shorts; yes, it is summer and I have legs. 

What do you think.  There will be photos. 





Tuesday, July 21, 2026

Vogue Business - Trending on the Red Carpet

 
Men’s Ballet Flats Are Trending on the Red Carpet. Will They Sell?



By Jack Stanley 
March 31, 2026



Photo: Getty Images
Artwork by Vogue Business

It’s official, “hot guys are wearing ballet flats”. From Bad Bunny in a Dries Van Noten pair at the Happy Gilmore 2 premiere, to Harry Styles wearing pastel green Dior flats at the Grammys, or a black Chanel pair at the Brits, some of menswear’s most prominent style icons are sporting the style of late. But will the average menswear consumer buy in?

The ballet flat trend has been bubbling away for a few years, with cult labels like Comme des Garçons, Maison Margiela, Lemaire, and Bode releasing versions as early as 2021, beloved by fashion-forward arty types who’d pair them with shredded jeans or baggy shorts. But with an influx of celebrity sightings in recent months, the men’s ballet flat has crossed over into more mainstream culture.

“Harry Styles has certainly played a role in raising the profile of this once-fringe trend for men,” says Karis Munday, retail analyst at EDITED. “Less than two weeks after he appeared at the Brits in Chanel ballet flats, Celine’s own ballet-style lace-up sold out, despite having been in stock since November.” Munday also points to the impact on high street retailers, adding that ultra-thin soles currently feature in 8% of early-season men’s shoe arrivals at Zara.

Of course, the aforementioned luxury labels cater to a subset of consumers influenced by the runway and celebrity style, even if it challenges traditionally gendered colors or silhouettes. But a cursory glance at the Instagram comments under any coverage of men’s ballet flats will reveal — amid rising conservatism and a continued surge in hyper-masculinity — plenty of consumers going to great lengths to avoid traditionally feminine fashion. (One comment, under a @FootwearNews post of Styles in his green Dior shoes, reads: “masculinity is dead.”)

Benedict Browne, style director at Mr Porter. There are now various sneakers that build on the ultra-thin design of a ballet flat, repackaging its construction for performance reasons, for example: 

By combining elements of traditional masculine dressing with the traditionally feminine ballet flat, brands are participating in the trend without alienating shoppers.

 

Maybe the ballet flat is more of a direction of travel than a final destination. It might be relatively rare for men to fully embrace the silhouette as it is, but many of its characteristics — the low, almost-flat sole and thin leather upper — are being combined with more traditional forms. “While literal interpretations of the ballet flat remain minimal in the market,” says Munday, “their influence is beginning to take shape in the form of thin soles and soft leather uppers on shoes.” For Mr Porter, this is coming through in “hybrid styles that sit somewhere between a loafer and a slipper, with that same pared-back feel”, says Browne. 

At the start of the year, Jacob Elordi sat on the Jimmy Kimmel sofa to promote Wuthering Heights, wearing a pair of off-white Bottega Veneta loafers that were not quite ballet flats, but ascribed to this hybrid style (though many users compared them to ballet flats online).

Ballet flats might not be worn by men en-masse, but their influence is being felt across the menswear market. Both brands and consumers are embracing softer shoes, happy to play with the rules that have previously governed men’s footwear. “The exact shoe might stay niche,” says Browne. “But the ideas behind it will carry through.”


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Personal Note: My friend Brian from Canada is great fan of ballet flats especially Tory Burch. Below is a photo of his gift to himself and his note:


Hi Rhonda.  Hope things are going well in your part of the world.  Thank you for the retirement wishes.  I’ve been retired for 2 1/2 years already. Wow time fly's. 

As I mentioned for a retirement gift to myself I wanted to treat myself to a very feminine pair of ballet flats. A pair that would scream girlie.  I was looking at the Tory Burch Runway flats and I even tried them on in the Tory Burch boutique.  Sadly I wasn’t a fan of the $400 price tag.  Instead I ordered a pair of White Rose Tieks.  They definitely scream girlie on me but a girlfriend talked me out of keep them cuz they weren’t really that practical so I returned them.  About the same time a Tory Burch representative reached out to me and offered me a $200 off coupon.  

I shifted my focus back to the Torys.  I had tried the TB Runway flats on in the Black and the Silver at the Scottsdale TB boutique and liked both colors.  The Tory representative felt because they are a pair to mark a special occasion I should get the silver pair. Two days after placing the order they arrived.  They are much different from all my other Torys and they are one of the most comfortable pairs of Torys I own.  The style is not really the best for me but they definitely are girlie! 

So here’s my retirement gift to myself. 

See: Brian's Review and Brian  - Tory Burch Flats from 2017





Monday, July 20, 2026

What to Do - PBCHRC Event


 2026 Summer Soirée

Time & Location

Saturday, July 25, 2026, 7:30-10 p.m.

Attire: Croquet Whites

National Croquet Center

700 Florida Mango Rd

West Palm Beach, FL 





About the event




Mix and mingle with elected officials, candidates, community leaders, and friends at one of the season's premier political and social gatherings.

Enjoy an exceptional culinary experience by Sandy James Fine Food & Productions, featuring butler-passed heavy hors d'oeuvres, including:

  • Jumbo shrimp and sweet corn beignets

  • Seared duck breast with roasted fruit chutney

  • Mint pesto lollipop lamb chops

  • Gruyère, ham, and honey cheese puffs

  • Creekstone Farms Black Angus beef tenderloin on crostini with arugula and horseradish cream

  • Grilled Key lime shrimp with ginger aioli

  • Palm Beach cheese puffs

  • Brie tartlets
 

The evening also includes a premium open bar, complimentary valet parking, and the opportunity to enjoy great conversation in an elegant world class setting.

We look forward to welcoming you for an unforgettable summer evening of fine food, lively conversation, and exceptional company. Event is indoors and out at the world famous National Croquet Center. 

Register / support below or mail checks with attendee names to P.O. Box 267, West Palm Beach, FL 33402.




Hope to see you there!



Saturday, July 18, 2026

Friday, July 17, 2026

White Off Shoulder - Denim Skirt.jpg

 
40 Spring Farmers Market Outfits: Cute & Casual Looks




An unstructured linen or cotton blazer in a soft beige or pale gray instantly elevates a basic jeans outfit into something that feels intentionally styled. Throw it over a simple white or black tank and pair with raw-hem straight-leg jeans for a look that balances polish with edge. The blazer's pockets are genuinely useful for tucking away your phone and a slim cardholder. Low-profile white sneakers or sleek leather loafers keep the footwear clean and modern. A canvas tote with a bold stripe or graphic print adds personality. Oversized sunglasses and a sleek low bun complete this city-girl-goes-to-the-market look that could easily transition to a casual business lunch afterward.


Thursday, July 16, 2026

Update to "My Favorite Sites"

 Alice Walk

Meet Emily

I do not update my Favorite Sites often. However, I found an exquisite boutique recently that is worth your attention. The site/store is "Alice Walk". It is both online and store fronts, locate on 18B Federal Street, Nantucket, MA and 533 E. Hopkins Ave, Aspen, CO. It's online site is Alicewalk.com.

There are many absolutely beautiful, unique  outfits on the site worn by beautiful real life models. Be sure to check it out.  

Here is more information about Emily and her store/site:

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I created "Alice Walk" for women who, like me, are seeking timeless design, beautiful fabrics, and a highly curated shopping experience. Early in my career working in finance in NYC, I was frustrated by cluttered department stores and the volume of uninspired, poorly-made clothing - and knew there was a better approach. 

I’m proud of the brand our all-female team has built – one that consistently stands behind a commitment to quality, timelessness and customer service.”

"Alice Walk" first began as a custom clothing concept. We partnered with small, family-owned textile mills in Europe to source one-of-a-kind fabrics and built an in-house production team that created each garment by hand right in our Boston studio.

Alice Walk's Model Cheryl
The Cashmere Crewneck - Striped


Our customers loved our timeless silhouettes, beautiful fabrics and commitment to “slow fashion”, so we expanded our offering of ready-to-wear staples. While we have since moved away from custom production, we believe it's this background in high-end construction that distinguishes our intentional approach to design.

"Alice Walk" was a place before it was a brand - but not just any place. Our founder, Emily Keneally, grew up and was later married on Alice Walk, a small seaside path in historic Hingham, Massachusetts. Endlessly inspired by the charm of the New England coast, the quiet elegance and timeless spirit of Alice Walk is infused into every thread of our story.

My note: "I so hope to visit soon..." 

There are also "pop-up" events coming in Long Island, Philadelphia, and Hobe Sound (FL).  Be sure to checkout her on-line collection and look for the pop-up locations.






Wednesday, July 15, 2026

I Am The Other Woman


 
First you hide your one single item. I hid a bra my girlfriend had left in my car (long story) in a box of model car leftover parts so my grandparents would not find it. 

Next I had a box of Goodwill donation that my grandmother was ask to drop off.  Two teen girls moving away that live close. Oh what a treasure trove. I hid the box in a out of the way in the barn.  I was in heaven. Not my grandmothers stuff and real girl's things.  To my disappointment it did get dropped off. 

Later I had a box about the size of a bankers-box that held wig, basic makeup, and and one outfit. Before a trip I stopped by my storage and packed up the box to go. Storage expanded and I had a hanging rack of outfits to go that would be hung in the car traveling with the box. By this time Rhonda's box was growing along with the size of the storage space. 

Many years later I had my own apartments that always had a dedicated closet for just Rhonda's stuff. I hide everything in there. No makeup kept in the bathroom. I had a date over one night and she opened the closet. It was all that I could do to explain I was not living with another "secret" woman. I finally had to admit the cloths were mine. I think I explained as: "I am the other woman".   

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Tuesday, July 14, 2026

Monday, July 13, 2026

Grace At Any Age 2...

Outfits That Say “I Tried” (But Not Too Much)




Chic Cutouts: Modern Sophistication for Effortless Elegance

Minimal elegance meets modern allure. A ribbed off-white top with chic cutouts pairs fabulously with high-waisted, wide-legged trousers in a creamy beige. That structured tote adds texture, while the gold jewelry echoes timeless sophistication. Open-toe heels elevate the look, bringing a breezy yet polished vibe. Perfect for a city rooftop drink or art gallery visit, it’s a fit for the truly style-savvy.

 

Friday, July 10, 2026

Minimalist Outfits

How to Style Minimalist Outfits with Accessories: 6 Rules That Actually Work

 

Minimalist style does not mean boring. It does not mean unfinished. And it definitely does not mean you have to choose between looking effortless and looking polished. The secret that every woman with genuinely great style already knows is this: the right accessories do not just add to a minimalist outfit — they complete it.

A wide leather belt, a silk scarf, a pair of oversized sunglasses, layered gold necklaces, or a perfectly chosen structured bag can transform a simple white tee and straight-leg jeans into an outfit that looks entirely considered. The clothing stays clean and calm. The accessories carry the personality. That is the formula.


#3 Crisp Shirt and Straight Jeans

A slightly relaxed white button-down shirt tucked into straight-leg blue jeans is the most foundational casual-minimalist outfit in existence. The beauty of this combination is how personal it becomes through accessorizing. Two accessories make the biggest difference here: a medium-brown leather belt that creates waist definition and visual warmth against the blue denim, and a quality watch that adds instant personality and polish to the wrist. Together, these two understated pieces transform a basic outfit into a quietly considered one.

The straight-leg jean and classic shirt works universally — it is one of the most reliably flattering combinations in casual minimalist dressing. The half-tuck works beautifully for pear shapes to create balance between top and bottom. Over-accessorizing this outfit. Its power is in its simplicity. More than two or three accessories — belt, watch, and perhaps simple bracelets — starts to undermine the effortless quality that makes it work. Medium-brown leather belt (creates warmth and waist definition), quality minimalist watch (adds personality), small gold or silver bracelets.

Complete the look: Leather loafers in brown or tan, a slim leather crossbody bag, and clean, unfussy styling.




Thursday, July 9, 2026

Be Decisive


Being decisive means having the ability to make firm, confident choices without unnecessary hesitation. It also describes actions or moments that are conclusive, settling a controversy or determining a final desired outcome.

Life does not have enough time for us to say "Someday I will give it a try".  Be it, go to the mall and shop. Be it, get out to a nice restaurant.  Be it, go for a walk at the outdoor plaza. Be it (you  fill in the blank)...

You do know what you like.  It is being a girl part-time or fulltime. 'Do it or do not - There is no (someday) I will try.' 




Wednesday, July 8, 2026

Musical Interlude - The Intruders - Cowboys To Girls

 




Made me smile.
Not exactly the song's theme but makes for a interesting concept for us...  Enjoy.
 

Monday, July 6, 2026

Hair Play - Messy Bun

 

No, this is not a rock band tribute of the groups that reigned 1983 - 1991.  It is about my 2-3 year process of growing my hair. Please don't hate me because male-pattern-baldness is not part of my genes; luck of the genetic pool.   

About ten years ago my hairdresser that cuts my hair and did my wigs mentioned; "Let's grow your hair out. You have plenty and it is a beautiful white."  I did, first tiredly having it just long enough to style and also be male.  A short "bob" cut.  I was still working / traveling and doing software product training.   

I am not quite sure of the motivation other than the obvious, I just started letting it grow long. With my hairdresser's help and the occasional layer cut / trim, I am still letting it grow. My concern about the possibility of thinning and bald spot never materialized. The wigs have all been tossed and I have never looked back.  No more hiding in plain sight. What you see is what you get. 

A high or low ponytail is mostly my daily look depending on circumstances. The high ponytail is thick and about twelve (12) inches long and  brushes the back of my neck. If I let my hair down the length is about 16 inches down my back and comes around beautifully in front. The photo above show a darker length of my hair below the hair piece. My banner photo shows my hair pulled back with a high ponytail you cannot see. 

I find long hair easy to manage. Mostly a comb out or ponytail only takes a few minutes. Shorted hair required rollers and styling after washing. Now I air dry and comb out.  As I go out, a little hairspray to keep stray pieces from dropping into my eyes..   

A Palm Beach Event January 2026 
I am having so much fun with clip-in messy buns, and long ponytails. I put my hair in a ponytail and clip in the hair piece. One is shown above. A total white piece matches perfectly when my hair is freshly washed.  Amazon: SARLA 2PCS Messy Bun Hair Pieces for Women Detachable Claw Clip

Although a hair piece is not necessary it is so much fun to play with. I have several. I was setting behind a beautiful blond at a Christmas concert last year and was in awe of her messy -bun. I just loved it and am sure her bun was natural. I lack the talent to style my natural hair into a bun like that so clip-ins are so easy.    

If possible, shed the wig and go with you own hair. It takes a while to grow, but so worth it.  

   






Sunday, July 5, 2026

Political Cartoons 7-5-2026


The Grinch that stole the Birthday!

 










Friday, July 3, 2026

Thursday, July 2, 2026

'Greatest Onslaught Of Corruption In The History Of Mankind'

The phrase "the shame of the nation" emerged in a New York Times investigative report detailing business dealings of the Trump family, which was subsequently quoted in a highly critical editorial by the New York Post. 





Text of the Foreign Emoluments Clause, U.S. Const. art. I, § 9, cl. 8.

“No Person holding any Office of Profit or Trust under [the United States], shall, without the Consent of the Congress, accept of any present, *Emolument, Office, or Title, of any kind whatever, from any King, Prince, or foreign State."


 

President Donald Trump collected billions of dollars through an array of cryptocurrency holdings, royalty payments and property investments last year, according to his latest annual financial disclosure released on Tuesday. 

The 2025 report, which totals 927 pages, provides the most extensive look so far at the growing fortune that the president has amassed since returning to office, including through his stakes in companies co-founded by family members. 

CNN’s Erin Burnett discusses the legality of Trump’s earnings with former White House lawyer Ty Cobb. Also, CNN’s Anderson Cooper speaks with New York Times reporter Eric Lipton, CNN contributor Kara Swisher and former federal prosecutor Jeffrey Toobin about the Trump family’s connection to a mining deal in Kazakhstan, crypto profits and more. 

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*An emolument is a formal term for any form of compensation, profit, or financial advantage received from employment, a business, or the holding of an office. It includes not only a base salary or wages but also bonuses, fees, and perks (such as a company car or housing)





Wednesday, July 1, 2026

Feminine Differential - Wearing Shorts?

 Vacation Outfits for Women Over 50: Chic & Easy


Happy July!!!





Love the look

There is something timeless about a crisp white linen button-down shirt paired with high-waisted denim shorts. The shirt feels breathable against the skin while the relaxed fit skims the body without clinging, and the shorts offer a modest length that hits just above the knee. Roll the sleeves once or twice and leave a few buttons open at the neck for that easy, undone vacation energy. A tan leather belt cinches the waist and creates a clean visual break between the two pieces. Flat beige sandals keep the outfit grounded and walkable, while a woven basket tote with a colorful scarf tied around the handle adds personality without extra effort. This is the kind of look that transitions seamlessly from a morning coffee run to an afternoon of sightseeing, looking intentional yet never over-styled.

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Here is a really good way to wear shorts.  I have two pairs on denim shorts and two pairs of white. I have worn both with t-shirts and see the above to be a classic look. If you have the legs, then why not!  

Flats rule! Most any color sandals and wedges would work. Just stay away from super high heels.  That would be dressing for a whole different audience.  


Not just for vacation - Any escape will do! 

Tuesday, June 30, 2026

Old Money Outfit Ideas for Women Over 50

 Timeless Over 50





The old money aesthetic has found its most natural home with women over 50. It's a style that doesn't chase trends or demand attention—it simply radiates confidence through impeccable tailoring, quality fabrics, and timeless silhouettes. Think of Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy's minimalist neutrals, Princess Diana's polished off-duty looks, or the quiet glamour of a well-cut blazer that fits like it was made for you. For women who have spent decades refining their taste, old money outfit ideas for women over 50 celebrate exactly what you already know: true elegance whispers rather than shouts. This guide brings together 35 complete head-to-toe looks built around structured blazers, flowing midi dresses, cashmere knits, pleated skirts, and the kind of accessories that feel like heirlooms—all designed to help you dress with grace, ease, and undeniable sophistication.


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Monday, June 29, 2026

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