What Do We Do Now?

 

Political Cartoons 2-15-2026

 

Dramatic

So, what are you waiting for?

 

Retail Therapy 2

 

Animal Print in '26

Is animal print still in style?

 

Google AI: Yes, animal print, especially leopard, is considered a timeless classic and a neutral in fashion, never truly going out of style, but rather cycling through massive popularity spikes. It offers versatility, from adding a pop with accessories to making bold statements with coats, and fashion experts consistently see it appear in designer collections, proving its enduring appeal for its mix of wildness and sophistication.

One of my first dresses was a zebra (tan) print and I have been amazed to see animal print, especially leopard, endure season-after-season. My Soma store has leopard print, pants, tops, matching bras, panties and PJs. Be still my heart.  

I had a yard/garage sale a few weeks back and searched through my "Goodwill" box for items to sell before donating. One was a scoop neck leopard top. Oh no, back to the coset it went.  

The above Amazon Asymmetrical Neck Half Sleeve Tee is a keeper at $22.00. It fits perfectly in all the right places and provides just the right amount of feminine differential; like animal print needs anymore. I am not sure I have ever seen anything in the men's Department that was animal print?  

This is such a versatile top that if can be work with dress pants, skirts or jeans. 

I did not do red this year and used the above outfit as my Facebook Christmas card. Caitlin and I make it our tradition to visit The Colony. Palm Beach and take our photos in front of their beautiful tree. I like this year's look.

Not just for Christmas? New Year's Outfit?  And, Spring. 

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Amazon Asymmetrical Neck Half Sleeve Tee.

 

Be You...

Amazon: Be You Shirts for Women

Be You. The World Will Adjust T-shirt 

Buying For Himself....

The three years that I worked at a lingerie store was very rewarding and taught me a lot. First the fitting, but most importantly helping women be comfortable with their bodies. The right bra can so enhance a figure no matter the size. Fact, few women are wearing the correct size and understand sizing. The wrong size can make a beautiful body look all wrong. I always felt so good at checkout when I had fitted a woman and she wanted to wear her new purchase home; "just donate that old one". Soma with its so many different style / sizes made fitting easy for almost everyone.

I remember on one occasion I got the size and went in the back and got the whole style/size run box and brough it out. I got her settled in a changing room with the box and said "have fun".  She bought three.

My most touching moment was one evening when a woman came in late with her teen son in tow. We were starting to clean up and I did a quick fitting and got her settled in a changing room with several bras. Not being busy at all, the son just hang-out. But, I sensed something; more than an passing interest. A few minutes later he was in the changing area hallway talking to his mother through the door. Shortly after in the room with his mother. They were the only customers left for the evening, so no big deal. She came out and retrieves several more bras on her own and returned to the close-door changing room. I continued my nightly closing routine. 

A few minutes later both were heading for checkout. About mid-hall I saw one of the most endearing hugs ever. After the checkout, our last customers of the night, there was another big hug. We were closing so did not have time to join in the celebration that was unfolding before my eyes.    

Even with my tired feet, that made my night and I went home with a smile.   

Trump and the Kennedy Center

Malignant narcissism is a psychological syndrome introduced by Otto Kernberg, characterized by a combination of narcissistic traits and a malevolent nature, including antisocial behavior, aggression, and paranoia. Individuals with malignant narcissism exhibit traits of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) but also display sadistic tendencies and a lack of empathy. They often engage in manipulative and abusive behaviors, finding pleasure in controlling and using others for their own gain. This condition is considered one of the most severe manifestations of narcissism. (AI - Simply Psychology)

The Daily Beast

Jackie Kennedy’s 1964 letter comes back to haunt Trump

Jackie Kennedy once expressed fear that the Kennedy Center would “fall into the realm of political patronage” in a letter that’s making rounds in the wake of the cultural institution’s MAGA makeover.

An October 1964 letter penned by the then-first lady to the center’s chairman, Roger Stevens, detailed her apprehensions about naming the Washington, D.C. institution after her husband, John F. Kennedy, who was assassinated the year before.

“Last winter, when the decision was made to name it after him, I was not capable of making any decision — and so many people were pressuring me,” she wrote. “I don’t think he needs any memorial — his grave and his Library are that. The Center was a problem he inherited — and he would have done it differently had he initiated it. All I care about now is sparing him controversy. He has a right to peace now. So you must understand my hesitancy.”

But Jackie said she was willing to make it work on the condition that she have a say in selecting the center’s director, its trustees, and her representative to the Kennedy Center board.

“If these things cannot be granted — then I will ask in the next session of Congress that the Center’s name be changed,” she said. “If you will grant me these things — I will work with you with dedication. I do not think that I am difficult to work with.”

Jacqueline Kennedy 

When it comes to the selection of trustees, Jackie wrote that “the list should gradually be honed down to people who will care and work for the Center.” [not tear it down"

“The appointment of trustees must never be allowed to fall into the realm of political patronage,” she said. “If the incumbent President has a friend who is interested in the arts — fine — he should be on the board — as he can help — but someone who is being repaid for past favors (George Brown) or named in hope of campaign contributions — should not be on it.”

Six decades later, Jackie’s concerns have borne fruit. A month after he returned to the White House, President Donald Trump installed himself as chairman of the Kennedy Center and appointed MAGA loyalists to its historically bipartisan board. Ric Grenell, a Trump loyalist, was named president, and Sergio Gor, a confidant of the president, was appointed secretary.

Jack Schlossberg, President Kennedy’s grandson, reaffirmed that the hijacking of the memorial would not erase his grandfather’s legacy. The New York congressional hopeful tweeted:

 “Trump can take the Kennedy Center for himself. He can change the name, shut the doors, and demolish the building. He can try to kill JFK. But JFK is kept alive by us now rising up to remove Donald Trump, bring him to justice, and restore the freedoms generations fought for.”

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My Note: As a petulant child,  Trump has now declared it will close after July 4, for two years. The threat, destroy it and rebuild it likely then as only the "Trump Center"; narcissism.  This is mostly in revenge for the artist that are refusing to be associated with the Trump brand.  Now, no one will be able to attend.  

Political Cartoons 2-8-2026

 

Always Be....

 

Today - Happy to Be With You...

 

A Cool Day Look - Sweater / Tights

This is an outfit I saw on Pinterest a few weeks back.  Looking around my closet I realized all of the parts, I already have. I wore the Amazon sweater ($23.98) and tights yesterday to the market and the the rest of the day. Never felt more confident. 

The morning was cool (for Florida) and I have worn the "Big" sweater several times before with jeans. Today I took to it another level. A great combination with boots or sneakers. The sneakers are New Balance 530 in pink at Nordstroms. A nice feminine differential, like the tights needed anything additional.

    

Why Wear High Heels?

Best High Heels Captions For Instagram

1. Stepping out and standing tall.👠

2. “Cinderella? Never heard of her.”👸

3. Sky’s the limit with these heels.🚀

4. Elevating more than just my height.🏔

5. Some call it confidence, I call it a 6-inch heel.💁‍♀️

6. Strutting into the week like…🚶‍♀️

7. Heels high, and higher standards.💼

8. Finding my balance, one stiletto at a time.🩰

9. Stepping on doubts, climbing dreams.⛰

10. Life’s better in high heels. And a bit taller.🦒

11. Not afraid of heights, just look at my shoes.🏙

12. High heels: every woman’s secret weapon.🔥

13. “Flat shoes? Sorry, I don’t speak that language.”🤷‍♀️

14. My sole-mate? Definitely these heels.💖

15. If confidence had a sound, it’d be the click of my heels.🎶

16. Tackling the world, one heel at a time.🌍

17. My heels, my throne. Every street, my runway.👑

18. High heels: because life’s too short to be basic.🎈

19. Keeping standards high, just like my heels.📈

20. Grounded in spirit, elevated in style.🕊

21. Every step in these feels like a bold statement.🖋

22. Heels: making every day a tad more fabulous.🌟

23. Breaking glass ceilings in these killer heels.💎

24. A pair of heels away from conquering the world.🌎

25. “Sneakers? Maybe later. Today’s a high heel day.”🦋

26. Tiptoeing into the spotlight, but with heels.🔦

27. A hint of sass in every step I take.🌶

28. Giving fairy tales a run for their money.🧚‍♀️

29. Why fit in when you can stand out? (And stand tall!)🌺

30. Elevating every moment, one heel at a time.🪜

Feminine Differential - Dichotomy

 

Noun: A division or contrast between two things that are, or are represented as being, opposed or different.

You would think that is this black below-the-knee maxi pencil skirt would be out of place with a jeans shirt. The point - completely.  However, that is a wonderful feminine differential. The skirt is an interview piece with heels. The tie front chambray / denim shirt, invokes a casual day at the mall / cafe lunch with girlfriends, look.

Note on the skirt: Amazon - ZTN Skirts for Women Stretch High Waist Pencil Skirt Bodycon Business Skirt with Back Slit Below Knee Black   Received and an almost perfect skit; Elastic waste, material has weight and trim pencil shape with kick pleat.  A keeper. 

You can keep adding to the contrast with pearls and a dressy shoulder purse. The secretary eyeglasses even add more to the overall look. Your option are endless; so why not!

 

Troubling Times - Your Rights Continued...

 LAWYER: When Cops Say 'Show Me Your ID'—Say THIS Back

Most drivers think the traffic stop begins and ends with handing over their license. That’s wrong. The moment you give an officer your ID, a second investigation often begins — and most people walk straight into it without realizing it.

This video breaks down what actually happens after you hand over your license, why officers are trained to pivot into questioning, and the exact phrases that stop a routine stop from turning into a search, detention, or arrest.

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My Note: Be safe! Be smart!  Crossdressing or presenting differently from your legal gender, is not a crime in 2026. Drinking and then driving many times is the downfall. Don't do it!    

Political Cartoons 2-1-2026

 

Cinderella is Proof...

 

Queen of My Own Story

 

Better After "A Few Days Off"

After 6 days in the hospital for something that could have been treated in less than an hour, I am home and better.  

The good news: America has maybe the best medical technology and hospitals, anywhere. People overall live longer, and are well taken care of.

The bad news: It is expensive and treatment occurs only after much CYA. The system is designed to maximize insurance billings. For those without insurance there is no safety net; go broke of die.  

From what I saw, the professionals are amazing. The system broken.

Just wanted to give an update.  Thank all of you for your concern.

 

A Few Days Off

 Dealing with medical issue - I will be back in few days.
Stay Tuned... 

Sherpa Boots

Naughty Monkey HIGHTRAIL Brown Leather Sherpa Lined Zip Up Heeled Buckle Boots

I found these on Poshmark, a site I have only used once. That transaction did not go well, but have decided to try one more time. Cute and look like they will work great with tight or boot cut jeans.  I will keep you posted.

Maybe a little odd for Florida but maybe good for riding.    

Said it a 1000 Times

Of course you have never said this?

 

PBCHRC Winter Fete '26 - The Photos

 More photos from the event photographer coming....

Political Cartoons 1-18-2026

 

Girls Just Want to Have...

 

What To Wear to A Palm Beach Event

 

With the showing of  the Netflix "Members Only - Palm Beach" the standard may be a little askew for outfits this season. Never have I seen such outlandish over the top looks in one TV series. I describe the overall premise as one social disaster after another; winner take all?  

With that in mind, I found myself going a little overboard on my PBHRC, Saturday outfit. The graphic off-shoulder tunic top I have had for years and not sure I have ever worn it. The palazzo pants seem to be made for the top and are the perfect complement.

Silver low heel pumps and just the right matching jewelry / purse.  Can't wait. There will be photos...

Just because you are not a Palm Beach socialite, does not mean you can't party like one. Social disaster optional.

  

How Will You Paint Your 2026 - Escape

 

ETSY: Heather Stillufsen 2026 Desk Calendar, Watercolor Art, Girly Office Decor, Gift for Her, Illustrated 12 month calendar

'26 Winter Fete

An evening of Palm Beach elegance awaits.

There have been request to preview events taking place in and around Palm Beach during season. I apologize for being a little late with this information,   

Update: Sold out! 250 in attendance! 

It is PBCHRC's main event of the season and must be seen event for politicians, Palm Beach socialites and the LGBTQ community of Palm Beach /  South Florida.  

This year it is being hosted by one of the stars or the hit Netflix series "Members Only Palm Beach" home that is for sale and highlighted in the series. This should be an interesting evening for all.

Food, entertainment, open bars and home tours of what a 42 million Palm Beach mansion. Katie and I will be there

The Face - The Supreme Court Transgender Sports Case

This high school sophomore is aiming for a Supreme Court upset in transgender sports case

By John Fritze
January 11, 2026

Fifteen year-old Becky Pepper-Jackson

Pepper-Jackson says she’s been a girl for as long as she can remember.

Becky Pepper-Jackson, the high school sophomore at the center of the Supreme Court appeal on transgender sports, flashes a grin when asked to describe the basic technique of the shot put, one of her favorite track and field events.

“It’s just throwing something that’s heavy,” the 15-year-old West Virginian said. “Far.”

That description could also apply to her blockbuster legal case.

While Pepper-Jackson sounds like any teen navigating school assignments, friends and a demanding practice schedule, the transgender girl has also been carrying the weight of a national cultural and political battle that will reach a crescendo Tuesday when the Supreme Court debates two appeals dealing with state bans on trans girls playing on women’s teams.

And Pepper-Jackson understands that — in the hands of a 6-3 conservative court that has been increasingly skeptical of transgender rights — her effort is a long shot.

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So, too, is the question of whether transgender people are entitled to the same anti-discrimination protections that race and sex have under the 14th Amendment. The Supreme Court dodged that question in last year’s decision on transgender care bans, US v. Skrmetti, though several conservative justices indicated in separate opinions that they believe the answer to that question is “no.”

Pepper-Jackson and her family are aware of those challenges. But, they said, they believe they’re engaged in a longer game.

“Getting this far and bringing light to this case and showing that this is an issue,” Pepper-Jackson said, “is a win.”

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See also Huffpost: The Supreme Court’s Trans Athlete Ban Cases Are About Much More Than Sports

Kel O’Hara, a senior attorney at Equal Rights Advocates, a San Francisco-based nonprofit gender justice organization:

Anti-trans sports laws embolden harassment not just towards trans women and girls but also cis women. There have already been numerous instances of adults — including school officials — harassing and investigating girl athletes who were assumed to be trans because of their gender expression or appearance.

PSA: What Rights Do You Have?

 If ICE [or Police] stops your car on the road?

I found this legal and common sense information on the site Law Offices of Crispin C. Lozano. We live in dangerous times and I refuse to be intimated back to the closet.  

Last week an innocent citizen was approach, stated "fine", "not mad at you" and was shot dead with the statement "fucking bitch".  By all appearances she was part of the LGBTQ community. There are still facts in question, however videos are coming forward that show something went horribly wrong.  

 

Without proper understanding of your legal rights and requirements this could happen to any one of us while out. The points below apply mainly to ICE enforcement although many are consistent to all traffic stops. 

A personal point of reference, I have been disrespect during a normal traffic stop and taken into custody on a mis-identification / mistaken identity warrant. At an inquiry after the incident I was told by the police, "What did you expect; your were wearing a dress."     

Below are points to remember when stopped or approached:

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Are you required to pull over for ICE?

Yes. Always ask why they are pulling you over. Drivers must stop for law enforcement, including federal agencies. Immigration agents, however, often use unmarked vehicles and do not wear uniforms. Drivers are obliged to stop only when officers visibly identify themselves and signal to pull over with lights or sirens. Before you say anything else, you should ask the officers what agency they are with and why you are being stopped.

Are you required to show immigration agents your ID?

If you are the driver, you should show your driver’s license when asked. Passengers in a vehicle are not required to show ID or provide any information. Immigrants with lawful status must present immigration papers if asked. Do not present foreign identification or fraudulent documents.

Everyone in the car should assert their right to remain silent. You do not have to answer questions about your nationality or legal status in the United States.

Are you required to roll down your window for ICE?

You may roll down the window partially, just enough to communicate with officers and to pass identification through if you have it. If you fully open the window, it may enable immigration agents to reach inside, open the door or pull you out.

If ICE orders you to exit your car. Do you have to comply?

It depends. The Fourth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution protects individuals from unreasonable searches and seizures by the government.

ICE officers must have probable cause, your consent or a judicial warrant signed by a judge to search your vehicle or require you to exit the car. It is important to first, ask the officer if you are free to go.

Is ICE permitted to search your vehicle or possessions?

Legally, ICE cannot search for your car, pockets or belongings without a judicial warrant, consent or probable cause. You have the right to refuse a search and should clearly state it to officers: “I do not consent to this search.”

Does ICE need a warrant to arrest you during a traffic stop?

For a legal arrest, ICE must have a warrant signed by a judge ― not just an administrative warrant signed by an immigration officer. Be respectful when asserting your rights to ICE because they might escalate the matter.

If you choose to remain silent, immigration officers may extend the traffic stop or try to pressure you for information. If you refuse to exit your car, officers might use force to try and remove you. Under the Trump administration, ICE has “frequently” detained individuals without warrants and conducted unlawful searches.

Many people are being racially profiled and stopped by immigration officers based on their ethnicity. Although it is understandable to feel frustrated or angry, it is important to remain calm and respectful even if you are being unlawfully detained. ICE officers are armed, and if they perceive you as a threat, they may [will] respond with force.

Your safety and the safety of those around you is [the] most important consideration.

Political Cartoons 1-11-2026 (content advisory)

 

POLITICO:  Woman killed by ICE agent in Minneapolis was a mother of 3, poet and new to the city. 

Her ex-husband said she was no activist and that he had never known her to participate in a protest of any kind. He said Renee Nicole Macklin Good had just dropped off her 6-year-old son at school.

Huffpost  Bystander footage of the incident showed Good’s SUV being surrounded by immigration authorities and reversing, turning the wheels of her car to leave before pulling forward when an officer fired a shot through her windshield, then continuing to fire their gun several more times through her open driver’s side window.

Despite the video’s narrative, those on the right have come out to bash Good. In a post on Truth Social, the president claimed the victim “was very disorderly,” a stance he doubled down on, later saying “she behaved horribly.” Vice President JD Vance called the deceased mother “a deranged leftist who tried to run [the officer] over.”

DHS said the officer “fired defensive shots,” labeling Good a “violent rioter.” On Wednesday, Noem said the shooting was in response to “an act of domestic terrorism,” echoing claims Good “proceeded to weaponize her vehicle and she attempted to run the officer over.”

The latest video posted: Renee Nicole Good calmly said everything was “fine” and “I’m not mad at you” seconds before an on-duty Immigration Customs Enforcement agent fatally shot her in Minneapolis as she drove away, according to a cellphone video shared Friday by Donald Trump’s White House.

My Note: Is this the "America" we want to live in?  Speak up! In your next traffic stop, this could happen to you.  

Be sure to read Diana’s Little Corner blog:  Know That The Supreme Court Ruled That You Cannot Shoot Someone For Driving Away!!!!

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