Sunday, March 16, 2025
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Wednesday, March 12, 2025
Department of Gender Enforcement
By: Rhonda Williams
DGE is a newly funder department that is part of DOGE. It is the follow-up to the administration's strict "male / female" gender mandate. It is being established to prevent cross-gender expression. With two departments; sports (competition / locker-room enforcement, bathroom monitoring) and a second department to define dress-code definitions. These new departments will oversee monitoring, training, enforcement and punishment.
Private citizens are being recruited and trained to visually check / report suspected infractions. A reward of $500.00 per arrest and conviction will be provided to the individuals who aid the agency in rooting out the scourge of those who are not properly representing their birth-gender.
Individuals who do not appear sufficiently masculine of feminine are encouraged to report to their local DGE office with birth certificate to receive a wrist barcode tattoo. This will help with misidentification.
All children by the age of puberty must be barcoded by a registered and approved DGE physician who will verify that their emerging genetalia clearly agrees with their birth certificate. If necessary, a DNA / chromosome test may be necessary. A life tattoo will then be applied that cannot be altered under penalty of law.
This tattoo is subject to inspection on demand before an individual can participate in any sporting event or use public facilities. Also the tattoo must be inspected by all merchants selling / providing gender specific under garments of outer-wear. The item SKU will be scanned along with the tattoo to collaborate and approve purchases.
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Unacceptable androgynous behavior under "DGE Guidelines" |
The same verification must be carried out for all cosmetic products, and jewelry. A database of attempted violations will be kept at the national level to ensure enforcement. First time offenders will be sent a letter with a one-time warning. Repeat offenders will be subject to aversion therapy, followed by strict mongering to prevent future cross-gender presentations or activity.
Incarceration is the punishment of last resort. However, it will be used to protect the public.
To help individuals understand the masculine / feminine differential, seminars both online and in person will be required. Certification will occur after passing a test and a notation placed in the government's Gender Representation Database. Even the slightest violation of androgynous behavior or presentation will trigger re-training and/or punishment.
An online manual will be published soon defining proper gender appropriate foot ware with acceptable heel heights. Hair styling will be monitored closely with street-cam photos using AI technology / enforcement. Wigs will be completely outlawed.
Further clarification with enforcement procedure will be forthcoming.
Tuesday, March 11, 2025
Texas Bill Could Charge Transgender People With 'Fraud'...
Leading to Possible Prison Time
LGBTQ community advocates worry that transgender individuals who have changed some of their legal documents, but not all, might be targeted.
First they came for the TransgenderAnd I did not speak outBecause I was only a 'crossdresser'"....
You know the rest!
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Monday, March 10, 2025
Sunday, March 9, 2025
Saturday, March 8, 2025
Friday, March 7, 2025
You Only Accept What You Think You Deserve
We accept things that belittle us or make us unhappy, because it’s an easier option than standing up for what we are or what we want.
Rhonda Williams
Here is a bit of an explanation for my "Knock-Knock" post last Saturday. My daily blog views are down 75% since Trump took office. Is the fear so palpable that even reading about being transgender is striking fear? Seems so. "Is Musk accessing my browser history?"
The Guardian: Research by TotalJobs finds 65% now believe secrecy is necessary to feel safe at work in the UK.
However, I do want to thank those of you that provided positive comments. There seems to be a core group of 40-50 readers.
Back in the 80's I attended a Support Group that ahead of the meeting sent out a newsletter to its members only. Although the hotel was never mentioned the newsletter contained a veiled description of a vehicle (every month different) with a number noted on the dash. This was our room number for our meeting.
I attend another Support Group meeting in the early 2000's where the restaurant only allowed use of a toilet in a cleaning supply closet; dirty mops, smelly trash bags and bleach bottles everywhere. The meeting took place in a dingy meeting room that was no longer used. The florescent lights, that worked, likely had not been changed since the 70's. I pulled up to the front to valet my car, was told to only park in the back and to enter through the service entrance.
Are we headed back to this? Don't blame Trump. Blane yourself for being willing to accept being treated as second-class humans.
The readers I have lost will not see this. So it is up to you, my loyal readers, to stand up, contact your friends, organize, and don't let the bastards win.
By being cowards, is not how the gays gained acceptance / tolerance. If we don't stand up, be visible and be proud then we are destine to be relegated to invisibility. And, the service entrance.
Where will you be on March 31?
Thursday, March 6, 2025
Try Doing Something...
Stephen Colbert’s brutal three-word message to Dems who protested Trump speech
My Note on Tuesday night: I guess a few walked out, however most sat and took the insults as they were "deserved"; even applauding. We don't have an opposition party. Until the Democrats find a spine and a leader, we are destine to go further down the Trump/Musk rabbit hole.
With no opposition party, the billionaire controlled press, and a non-functioning checks-and-balance system, the outlooks looks bleak.
Wednesday, March 5, 2025
Tuesday, March 4, 2025
Killing Me Softly - Roberta Flack
Monday, March 3, 2025
Very Proud...
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Two of my daughters at the Ebike shop Palm Beach Ebike Rentals |
With her sisters they have established Palm Beach Ebike Rentals. All of the sisters are involved and stay busy. One of my daughter designed a three hour guided tour of downtown West Palm Beach and Palm Beach. Plus rentals are available by the hour or day to explore. With new Ebikes purchased (painted Palm Beach Pink) and a few from Bar Harbor, they found a great location next to the West Palm Beach Brightline train station. The grand opening party was in November. Anyone coming in for the day on Brightline from Orlando, Ft. Lauderdale, or Miami need only walk about 25 yards to the rental location. A great day-trip adventure.
The bike vary in size to fit the rider, from small to x-large. Plus, you are fitted with the proper seat adjustments for your most comfortable bike before you go out. The parking lot allows you to practice.
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Sunday, March 2, 2025
Saturday, March 1, 2025
Knock-Knock...
Anyone Home?
The problem is, I do care. In July this blog will be eleven years old and as of today 3,600 post. Interesting 3,516 days and 3,600 post.
My question - Are you going to just give up? Go back to the closet? Quake from fear and let the bigots win? Are you afraid to read, comment or let the world know who/what you are?
We exist and deserve the same rights as all. Nothing more, nothing less.
Transgender rights are human rights.
However, is our whole community so afraid they don't read Blogs any longer? Or Comment? Or follow?
Makes me question if I should care?
Friday, February 28, 2025
Window Shopping - A Sunday Adventure
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My Grandparents after church in our back yard. |
Thursday, February 27, 2025
Bra Styles - More Notes from the Lingerie Store
HubPages: That should be enough information to give you at least a start in the bra-seeking game.
My Notes: I believe that my Soma store carries 43 different styles. I am not sure where we differ from the video. Style is different from "Band" (measured around chest) where our store sizes got from 32 to 44. The Cup sized (calculated) differs from style and we carry from "B" to "G" with a few "H" cup sizes. Stocking and find a specific style / band / cup is daunting.
The YouTube above will help with different styles, however to get the best fit please consider being measured. After being measured we always suggest several style based on your preference of under-wire or not. Another personal preference is the amount of coverage: low often is often referred to as a "demi" or "plunge" with full-coverage bras being the opposes.
Also the use plays into the choice: Nude t-shirt bra are best for form-fitting every day use. Convertible bras (straps adjust or can be removed) work best with off-the-shoulder or halter evening wear. Sports bras for exercising also great for weekend lounging, offer a more structured shape for maximum support. Front close or pull-on are another style option that many times helps with entry and exit.
Getting the first or best fit bra is a big step in a young girl becoming a woman. Likewise for us. Do not underestimate the the power of this life's development step.
Feel free to ask any questions you might have in the comments section if you would like more information.
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
More Americans identify as LGBTQ+ than ever before, poll finds
The proportion of American adults who identify as LGBTQ+ has risen to 9.3% of the population, according to a Gallup Poll released Thursday.
“If there is one thing that people should take away from these new findings, it is this: LGBTQ+ people have always been here, and we will continue to be here, no matter what laws or policies attempt to erase us,”
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
Hunter Schafer and Her Passport Gender Marker
‘Euphoria’ star Hunter Schafer says passport gender marker change ‘doesn’t change anything about me or my transness’
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Hunter Schafer at the 77th edition of the Cannes Film Festival in Cannes |
CNN — Hunter Schafer has shared that the gender marker on her passport has been changed to list her as male.
The “Euphoria” actress posted a video on social media in which she explained that she had to get a new passport after her original was stolen while she was filming in Spain last year.
“Now, to specify, my gender markers were first changed in my teens, when I first got my driver’s license and then passports following all have been female since then,” the 26-year-old said. “Hasn’t really been a problem.”
But now, because of an executive order from the new presidential administration, her new passport has an “M” for male.
The “Cuckoo” star said she was “not making this post to fear-monger, or to create drama, or receive consolation, I don’t need it.”
“But I do think it’s worth posting to sort of note the reality of the situation and that it’s happening,” she continued. “I was shocked. I just didn’t think it was actually going to happen.”
Schafer added that she wants “to acknowledge my privilege, not only as a celebrity transwoman who is white,” and said she believes the fact she never changed her birth certificate may have contributed to the recent change.
“I don’t know exactly what changed as far as the processing goes, but this is the first time this has happened to me since I changed my gender marker,” Schafer said. “We’re coming up on a decade now, or something. And I do believe it is a direct result of the administration our country is currently operating under. And I guess I’m just sort of scared of the way this stuff slowly gets implemented.”
She also had some strong words for the administration.
“I also want to say, I don’t give a f**k that they put an ‘M’ on my passport,” she said. “It doesn’t change really anything about me or my transness, however it does make life a little harder.”
Schafer said she will be testing out how difficult it will be as she soon has to travel outside of the country for work with her new passport for the first time.
“I’m pretty sure it’s going to come along with having to out myself to border patrol agents… much more often than I would like to or is really necessary,” she said, adding that she’s also thinking about other trans people who this might be happening to.
Schafer not the only trans star speaking out.
While recently promoting her new series “Clean Slate” Laverne Cox discussed the importance of remaining visible as a trans performer, and telling trans stories as her community is “experiencing the most intense backlash against trans visibility that I’ve seen in my lifetime.”
“Executive orders limiting our rights, 26 states banned gender affirming care for young people, banning us from the military, from bathrooms… there’s this whole anti-trans thing, and we’re less than 1% of the population,” Cox said. “Someone in my comment section said, ‘They’re worried about the wrong 1%.’”
Monday, February 24, 2025
Is This Crossdressing?
I’m Just an Ordinary Guy Who Loves Wearing Skirts and Dresses and Believes We Shouldn’t Assign Gender to a Piece Fabric
He believes it’s about time we get rid of gender labels, especially in regards to something as simple as clothing.
Sunday, February 23, 2025
Saturday, February 22, 2025
Friday, February 21, 2025
The Lavender Scare - Part 2
America is in the grip of a new ‘Lavender Scare,’ spreading fear of LGBTQ+ people
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The cover of the Hoey committee report released Dec. 15, 1950, concluding that homosexuals were unsuitable for employment in the federal government |
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Roy Cohn and Joseph McCarthy |
In a dramatic confrontation, Joseph Welch, special counsel for the U.S. Army, lashes out at Senator Joseph McCarthy during hearings on whether communism has infiltrated the U.S. armed forces. Welch’s verbal assault—including the enduring question "Have you no sense of decency?"—marked the end of McCarthy’s power during the anticommunist hysteria of the Red Scare in America.