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Wednesday, May 13, 2026

The Price is Right (Wrong)...

Mall Shopping

 


Last week I had a business lunch and after went by the mall.  A beautiful day to shop. Having worked at Soma, and filled in at Talbots and Chicos I always have shops and friends to visit. I had time to kill and after an exchange at LOF, checked in at Talbots with a $20 coupon that needed to see some love. 

The above Talbots Gingham dress is so retro. First, "Gingham" that never seems to go out of style and being a cotton, shirtdress, it reminded me of something my mother had. I loved the look and fit. The store was not at all busy on a Tuesday afternoon, so I took my time and played, trying on several other dresses and a skirt. I love being a girl. 

I had been watching the dress online and found it to just as appealing in person.  From my very first look to actually trying it, there is a problem; the cost. The full price ranges is from $179 to $199 depending on size. 

Can I make that work? No, not even at a sale price. Maybe this is a tariff laden price or just the new normal. Either way, even loving it and at a sale price, it seemed so over priced for a self-described "imported" dress. Talbots is not an exclusive boutique.  

On the other side of the above layout there is a TEMU - Summer Party Dress with a Plaid Print And Short Sleeves Featuring a Split Design. This style I like a little better with a square neck, puff sleeves and shorter length. Who knows, maybe the same manufacture, but, likely the same point of origan. However, for me it had the same appeal. Now the best part, price $12.97 with $2.99 shipping. What is not to like here? 

Yes, I did order and so far still going to pass on the Talbots dress. I will keep you posted and write more when the TEMU option arrives. I have high hope and low expectorations. 

What I know is that if we are willing to accept outrageous prices and unjustifiable price increases, then that is what the sellers will keep giving us.  



Tuesday, May 12, 2026

Femininity - Not An Act

 

There is a paragraph in a Fictionmania story that is so relevant. The story is "The Candidate's Wife - A Short Story By Maryanne Peters


Femininity should not be an act, but a way of life," she explained. You can adopt for an evening out, or for a week or two, or for the rest of your life, but you live it - you don't act it."

 

Maryanne, I hope you do not mind me using the quote. Even in my early crossdressing days, on escapes to group meeting, or out to a restaurant for an evening, I lived being "how I presented".  It was never a costume and as Maryanne described it, not an act.  


Understanding this helps us to live in a word void of excuses and weak justifications. Femininity is our reality. Escape and be who you are, for an evening out, or for a week or two, or for the rest of your life. Live it - You don't act it.





Monday, May 11, 2026

Shameless Rationalizations

Today I am going to venture into the hated realm of politics.  If you feel any remorse for voting for Trump or need intellectual proof to his hate filled inadequate leadership, continue to read.  

Bear in mind this was written before Thump's latest "boondoggle / lie war" or grift to cheat the American tax payers out of one billion dollars for a, never needed, never ask for ballroom.  Such a boldface lie told from day one.  

First I need to define three Greek words used in the below opinion editorial:

Logos (Greek for "word," "reason," or "discourse") is a term in philosophy, rhetoric, and theology referring to divine wisdom, rational structure, or logic. It commonly represents an argument's reliance on facts, figures, and logical reasoning.

Ethos is the characteristic spirit, guiding beliefs, or fundamental values that define a person, group, or culture. Derived from the Greek word for "character," it is frequently used in rhetoric to describe a speaker or writer's credibility, trustworthiness, and authority used to persuade an audience.

Pathos is a rhetorical device and mode of persuasion that appeals to an audience’s emotions, particularly by evoking feelings of pity, sympathy, tenderness, or sorrow. Originating from the Greek word for "suffering" or "experience," it is one of Aristotle’s three modes of persuasion, alongside ethos (credibility) and logos (logic).

I continue with the Opinion piece:

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 "The Most Unfit Man To Occupy the White House – Ever"
written by  BARTH KECK, February 9 2026.

Greek philosopher Aristotle was a master orator who understood the power of words. To that end, he developed what became known as the “Aristotelian triangle” in which he identified three specific ways a speaker can appeal to an audience: logos, ethos, and pathos.

As a writer, I lean heavily on logos, which employs reason to make an argument. A message is thus organized in a logical fashion and supported with rational evidence. I also try to build my own credibility – or ethos – by ensuring that my evidence originates from reliable sources. Some may argue with my reasoning and evidence, which comes with the territory when writing opinion pieces, but my aim is to make reasonable and credible claims in my op-eds.

The one appeal that I usually shy away from is pathos – the appeal to emotions – because I feel it can often sidetrack a claim and neglect the original point. Witness the typical “debates” on social media filled with rancor and rage. I prefer to stay on point and address facts rather than feelings.

But this op-ed is different. The best way to approach the issue I’m about to address is with pathos – instant, honest, and naked emotion. In fact, I fear the typical “level-headed” and “reasonable” manner journalists and politicians have typically taken when analyzing the behavior of Donald Trump ignores what is now, to me, an obvious fact: The man is a cruel and selfish boor unfit to lead any country in the world, let alone the United States of America.

I don’t write those words lightly. They sound partisan, divisive, and yes, emotional. But so be it. All of the man’s antics, insults, and lies since he first ran for office in 2016 – a mountain of evidence that qualifies as logos, actually – undeniably demonstrate that Donald Trump is indeed a cruel and selfish boor unfit to lead any country in the world.

The event that sparked this emotional response from me was Trump’s insult-laced attack on CNN reporter Kaitlan Collins during a White House press conference last week. While asking the president for his reaction to the recent release of additional Epstein files and the survivors involved, Trump said this to Collins:

“You are so bad. You are the worst reporter. No wonder CNN has no ratings because of people like you. You know she’s a young woman. I don’t think I’ve ever seen you smile. I’ve known you for 10 years. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a smile on your face. You know why you’re not smiling. Because you know you’re not telling the truth. And you’re a very dishonest organization. And they should be ashamed of you.”

It certainly wasn’t the first time he berated a reporter. Trump, in fact, prefers to insult women journalists, whom he has called “nasty,” “piggy,” “terrible,” “ugly” and “incapable.” The man, essentially, has normalized misogynistic rhetoric. How else to explain this dismissive explanation from White House spokesperson Abigail Jackson?

“President Trump has never been politically correct, never holds back, and in large part, the American people re-elected him for his transparency. This has nothing to do with gender – it has everything to do with the fact that the President’s and the public’s trust in the media is at all-time lows.”

Sorry, I’m not buying it. Unfortunately, too many other people continue to believe such shameless rationalizations – or at least they’re giving the man a pass because of the office he holds. Or they’re afraid of receiving the same retribution he has imposed on the many others who dared to question him. Or they want to ride his political coattails.

Gutless. That’s the best way to describe Americans who refuse to hold the president of America to account for his unseemly and vulgar behavior. Why did the journalists present not support Collins at that moment, even if it was to ask a similar follow-up question? As for the politicians surrounding Trump in the Oval Office, the best they could do was squirm as they held on tightly to the red “America Is Back” hats their dear leader had just given them.

The entire scene would be comical – fit for a Saturday Night Live skit – were it not so enraging and, ultimately, sad. What has happened to America? Where has our sense of personal pride and decency gone? I don’t care if you’re a Republican, Democrat, Independent, Libertarian, whatever – this type of behavior from an American president should be unacceptable, at a minimum.

To be sure, America is riddled with problems much deeper than the crassness of its president. I get that. I’ve written about many of those issues in a much less emotional tone. Logos and ethos dominated those op-eds. But my emotions have gotten the best of me this time. Pathos is my natural response to a president who continually spews hateful, self-indulgent rhetoric. Why it doesn’t affect so many others in a similar fashion befuddles me.

Just as I was completing the first draft of this op-ed, Trump was at it again. On social media, he posted a clearly racist AI-generated clip of former President Barack Obama and first lady Michelle Obama as apes. The White House initially “dismissed criticism that the video was racist, and said it is from a meme depicting Trump and the Obamas as characters from The Lion King.” After considerable backlash, the post was taken down – 12 hours after it first appeared. The White House conveniently blamed a staffer who “erroneously” made the post.

For his part, Trump declined to apologize, saying the post focused on voter fraud and “nobody knew that [the offensive clip of Barack and Michelle Obama] was at the end of the post.” 

Uh huh. Sure. Whatever. Just another day in Trump’s disreputable and hate-filled America.



Sunday, May 10, 2026

Saturday, May 9, 2026

Thursday, May 7, 2026

Feminine Differential Ballet Flats (maybe not)

 The Best Ballet Flats for Men


From the Ballet Flats for Men site:

I thought I might take some time to rank order some of the ballet flats that are out there and that I think make great options for men. If you are a guy who is considering trying out ballet flats for the first time or if you already wear flats but are looking for something different, hopefully this post will help. I own many of these flats and have at least tried on many others. This list includes a few that I think will also work but I have not yet had the chance to try them on.

My main criteria in developing this list, in order of priority, are as follows:

Comfort – guys really are more about having shoes that are comfortable.
Style – needs to have smooth, clean lines with a unisex look.
Sizing – needs to be available in larger sizes for men.
Price – when it comes to ballet flats, you usually get what you pay for, but it still needs to be reasonable.

Read More and see a good list to start. 



Conclusion

[The site] is not an exhaustive list of possible ballet flat options for men. In fact, I have several others in my closet that I have not even mentioned here. I welcome others to post their favorites in the remarks to this blog page. In the future, I will start writing more extensive reviews of some of the flats that I own.





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My Note: I have ordered a pair of the Amazon Essentials ($22.10) in wide. Amazon has over 83,000 reviews and some appear to be from men. I have several pairs of Tory Ballet Flats and other brands. I do not wear them regularly because I have never been one-hundred percent happy with the width. I am looking for an everyday pair of flats, to wear with jeans and be a dressy alternative to sneakers. 

After receiving the Amazon Essentials Flats, it is love at first wearing. They are 
comfortable and practical. I am going to wear these for a few days and see how they work. Maybe, a not-so "feminine differential" after all.  

See my post "Feminine Differential - Ballet Flats Revisit" from 2020 and my Guest Post "I LOVE ballet flats" By Brian

Do you have any ballet flats that you wear on a regular basis? Any reactions?  A feminine differential - Maybe not.  Let's start a trend! 



Wednesday, May 6, 2026

Met Gala 2026

The Most striking Red Carpet Looks

Sam Smith caps a dramatic sleeved gown
with a single feather.
Lanna Apisukh for CNN

See all the gowns. There is always one that warms my heart. 

Wikipedia: Samuel Frederick Smith (born 19 May 1992) is an English singer and songwriter. In 2012, they[a] rose to prominence when they featured on Disclosure's breakthrough single "Latch", which peaked at number eleven on the UK Singles Chart. The following year, they featured on Naughty Boy's single "La La La", which became a number one single in the UK.

Smith's numerous accolades include five Grammy Awards, three Brit Awards, three Billboard Music Awards, and an American Music Award, as well as a Golden Globe and an Academy Award. On the UK Albums Chart, In the Lonely Hour was the best-selling debut album of the 2010s and the sixth best-selling album of the decade, while collectively Smith's albums spent the fourth-most weeks at number one in the 2010s, behind Ed Sheeran, Adele and Eminem. Smith is the first openly non-binary musician to both release a song that reached No. 1 on the Billboard Hot 100 and to win a Grammy Award.

Tuesday, May 5, 2026

A Great AI Image and Question...


From a practical prospective, there are so many things wrong with this AI image. 

But who cares!


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I have questions: Yesterday (Monday) my non-robot views were near zero. OK not zero but only about 10% of my typical loyal reader views; you, the readers I value. I have few "Followers" compared to other blogs. Have I run my course? Do my views only come from secondary clicks on Femulate and t-Central? Maybe my content is no longer relevant, although I try and keep it varied. 

Doing a everyday post is a lot of work. I am a big girl, so please be honest on continuing? Maybe all blogs have run their course? I knew this, "To be or not be?" moment would come. So I ask, should I continue?   

Monday, May 4, 2026

Daisy Duke and The Dukes of Hazzard



 

Gingham Top White Jeans

I have always loved the feminine differential of gingham. Maybe my inner Daisy Duke is calling.  Or, the "I am ready for a picnic" look.  For those who have no cluse who Daisy Duke is:

Catherine Bach as Daisy Duke

Daisy Duke is a fictional character from the American television series "The Dukes of Hazzard". A TV show from 1979 to 1985. Daisy, played by Catherine Bach, is the cousin of the protagonists, Bo and Luke, and all three live on a farm on the outskirts of Hazzard County with their Uncle Jesse.  

Catherine Bach:

 I can't think of another character who is responsible for creating their own fashion accessory namesake."


The show plots were not of the highest intellectual calling, although it ran for seven seasons and a total of 147 episodes. Many of the episodes followed a similar structure "out-of-town crooks pull a robbery or commit a crime or scandal, Duke boys blamed, spend the rest of the hour clearing their names. The General Lee flies and the squad cars crash.



The General Lee (sometimes referred to as simply "the General") is an orange 1969 Dodge Charger driven in the television series The Dukes of Hazzard by the characters the Duke boys, Bo and Luke.

 

Saturday, May 2, 2026

Friday, May 1, 2026

Why Not 4...


An easy look. In fact I wore almost the exact outfit to a Doctor's office last week. This is such an easy casual outfit with heels optional. I wore platform sneakers (trainers).  And yes, took my leather every-day bucket-shoulder bag.   

I have worn this look many times with the white shirt worn out, almost as a tunic. With high-rise jeans and belt, shirt tucked in with balloon sleeves; what a nice look. 

I love the little ankle cuff, turn up, on the skinny jeans. 
A skinny pair of jeans with a fringe ankle bottom would also work. Plus, button fly in place of a zip front. All not obvious, but subtle feminine differentials. 

Why not..... 



 

Thursday, April 30, 2026

Mon, Is This A Good Time...

 


I never got to have that conversation. I lost my mother just as I became a teen.  In her place were the most loving and caring Grandparents (parents) any kid could wish for  Both in their late 60s, they took on a lot of responsibility.  I did my best to be appreciative and stay out of trouble. There was mutual respect and love. 

Near as my grandmother ever came to seeing my crossdressing self was a dress rehearsal for a womanless beauty pageant.  My then girlfriend did the full deal, makeup, heels and her prom dress. There was a sense I felt that bordered on something just short of "whatever".  It was never discussed later.  

Any of you that may have had the above type discussion were fortunate.  So many times I wish I had had the opportunity for full disclosure. Like going back in time, altering the past may have change everything in the future. So, I am Ok with the way my life progressed. Although my biggest regret is not bein more honest. First, with myself and with family. Many lost opportunities and a lot of concealing.   

How abut you? Did you have an open discussion with your mother as a youth or adult? What reactions?  We all share such similar events / experiences in our lives.  Please tell us your experience.  


Wednesday, April 29, 2026

Grace At Any Age...

 It Never Goes Out Of Style




Tuesday, April 28, 2026

A Boot Story...

 

Classy!

The above Coach boots have a love story. Vintage, made in US quality and purchased well over 5 years ago. Sadly they languished in my closet with an occasional try. Yes the correct size and with incredible heavy high quality leather they are a treasure.  A 4" heel with an ever so slight 1/2" platform bed inside the shoe. The most impressive aspect is the quality; oh and the sexy part too.

The problem, the top circular band was manufactured not open. Yes, there was  a leather band with buckle that was decoration. The zipper ended at the top of the fixed top band. I have a high instep and there was no getting my foot past the top closed band even with the zipper open. Not wanting to destroy the beautiful boots, I debated several times just cutting the fixed band. I hesitated. 

However, last week I did do just that and to my amazement the zipper still had stops to keep it in place, on track. The top  band was now open. I only need to take the boots in to my shoe shop to get the decorative top buckle strap tacked down on both side of the zipper. 

I love the other three straps and buckles that are completely decorative.  

Can I get them on; YES,  And, the zipper closes / goes all the way up even with my exaggerated calves. They work! Now, should I wear then? That is the question. My first attempt at standing was meet with a near tip over. That would have been a face plant. Next came a very cautious shuffle.  

So, much practice will be needed and I have not worn even 3 1/2 pumps in a while. I so want to pair these boots with the long skirt shown above. These are all items in my closet. I see it as a cool, yet an elegant look with the wide belt pulling everything together; pun intended. Not a Florida look, but maybe for next fall?  

I will keep you posted and maybe at least model the outfit. I will post a photo.   
 


Monday, April 27, 2026

Why Do Women Wear High Heels?

 And Some Men...




High heels have come to symbolize sexuality and power. But interestingly, it wasn’t women who first wore them. Erin Moriarty reports on an exhibition that showcases the history of high-heeled shoes

Sunday, April 26, 2026

Political Cartoons 4-26-2026

 











The Atlantic’s Sarah Fitzpatrick said she has been “inundated” with new sources since publishing her bombshell report on FBI Director Kash Patel, which accused him of “excessive drinking and unexplained absences.”


Saturday, April 25, 2026

Friday, April 24, 2026

Gender Performativity

 

Joanna Santos' blog "Starting Again...." had a very interesting post titled "Pointless". It discussed gender as performative. She made mention of Judith Butler saying we perform gender.  Here is a Youtube that further discusses that subject. Thank you Joanna for finding this:





  

Thursday, April 23, 2026

Camera Ready


 

It is amazing how easy a selfie is today.  By the time I was a teen I was very interested in photography.  My mother sparked the interest with her "Brownie" that was always used for birthdays, trips and holidays.  Some of her photos are my most endearing memories of her and my family. 35mm was the rage of serious photographers with a cousin having an Asihi Pentax that I was fascinated with. He spent time on the farm with my Uncle one summer and took many 8x10, B/W image I still have. 

Polaroid was the rage in the 60's with its instant photos. Advertised on the Ed Sullivan show, It had a simplicity factor going for it and the appeal of not having to take your photos in to be processed; instant gratification.  

Polaroid Land 100 and self-timer
Still have both

My first serious amateur camera was a Polaroid Land 100.  it was  super fast (low-light photos), low grain B/W film that was easily loaded. After taking a B/W photo you had to "fix" the photo with a clear goo. I still have several photos that have held up well through the years. 

Aah, it had available an optional shutter release / self timer. You know where this is going. The still un-name girl-within could now take selfies. After the photo whirred out of the side, no one but myself would ever see the photo. I am sure this played a part in my camera choice of the day. 

In the 1950s and ‘60s, an underground network of transgender women, gender nonconforming people, and men who dressed as women found refuge at a modest house in the Catskills, NY known as Casa Susanna. A surviving photos shows one of our sisters with her trusty Polaroid. 

Casa Susanna
Everyone taking photos

The above cartoon rings with such a feeling of our desire so see how we looked as a girl, yet fearful of the local photo lab discovering our truth.  

My next camera was a 35mm Minolta SRT 101, and I learned the art of developing and printing in a darkroom. Later, I discovered an understanding professional photographer with a studio and had a professional portfolio done. The ultimate validation as to how my feminine person looked.  

We have come along way...  Our phone has contributed to the selfie phenomenon. Photo editing programs allowed us to enhance our selfies in a way that was only possible with hours in the darkroom. 
Plus, with AI we can become our fantasy female / queen with just a few clicks.  

How about you? Were you brave enough to just drop your film roll off for processing at the drive-through; (in the next town over)? Also, what was your first serious camera? If you say the iPhone we will know your age.   

Wednesday, April 22, 2026

Every Day Is...




 

Not just for the marina 




I love this look.  For someone that knew nothing about being casual ten year ago, I am at a place where I could live every day in this exact look.  Why not? 




Tuesday, April 21, 2026

So What Have We Gained and At What Cost?


Aug 4, 2015:  The Iran Deal

Joint Comprehensive Plan of Action (JCPOA)

The United States and the world’s major powers — the United Kingdom, France, Germany, China, Russia, and the European Union — and Iran sat around the negotiating table month after month, negotiating every detail that would inch us ever-closer to delivering on a promise President Obama had made before he first took office. Then, on July 14, 2015, with a shared commitment to peace, the United States and our international partners announced we had secured a nuclear deal that would achieve the necessary: Verifiably prevent Iran from obtaining a nuclear weapon.

It is an historic deal — a promise fulfilled. It blocks every possible pathway Iran could use to build a nuclear bomb while ensuring — through a comprehensive, intrusive, and unprecedented verification and transparency regime — that Iran’s nuclear program remains exclusively peaceful moving forward.




May 8, 2018: The Withdrawal

President Donald Trump officially announced that the United States would withdraw from the Joint Comprehensive Plan of Action (JCPOA), commonly known as the Iran nuclear agreement.
 

July 2019: The Mail on Sunday reports that Sir Kim wrote to Mr Johnson informing him Republican President Trump appeared to be abandoning the nuclear deal for "personality reasons" - because the pact had been agreed by his Democrat predecessor, Barack Obama.

Trump tore up the deal in 2018, and a return to that framework has Obama alums wondering what, exactly, was the point in abandoning it in the first place.



April 20, 2026 Trump stated:


PBS: What do you want from the negotiating team in Islamabad?

Jim Townsend, a former deputy assistant secretary of defense in the Obama administration said. “And how many people had to die to gain what we already had?” [cost?]


Fact Check Team: How much is the Iran war costing the US?

KOMONEWS: One widely cited tracker called the Iran Cost Ticker estimates the U.S. has spent nearly $51 billion so far. That figure is based on an initial $11.3 billion spent during the first week of strikes, as reported by the Pentagon, followed by roughly $1 billion per day in ongoing costs. At about 46 days into the conflict, that pushes the total near the $51 billion mark.


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My Notes: 

All of this money and cost to the American people and lasting harm to the reputation of the USA worldwide, over what?  A personal vendetta / jealousy; malignant narcissism?

Politico: Threatening to annihilate an entire civilization or its essential civilian infrastructure is widely considered a violation of international law and, according to many legal experts, constitutes a war crime.

Action today is needed from The Congress (immediate impeachment) or the Cabinet (25 amendment); less you be co-conspirators. 

Stop the madness!


Post Script: From HuffPost today, 4/21: Eight Weeks In, Trump May Be Headed Toward An Iran Deal Similar To Obama’s.

Sanctions relief in return for a moratorium on nuclear fuel enrichment is the exact arrangement that Trump and many Republicans criticized for years.



Monday, April 20, 2026

The Dress Mannequin


It is amazing how some memories become part of our collective consciousness and stay. After so many years it becomes difficult to be sure which are fantasy or reality. Transgender storied abound with the above scenario. Although, I have my own story here and I am sure it happened.

My mother was not a seamstress. Although she was very fashion aware and always had beautiful dresses and shoes. Side point: Easter reminds me that there was always a new dress for Sunday service. Here is my memory and I am sticking with it:

In my case there was no father around and I remember one Saturdays afternoon at home with my mother like it was yesterday. I was playing with my tiny plastic soldiers in my room and she called for help.  

There was a dress she wanted me to put on so she could get the hem even. This was about the extent of her sewing. I remember vividly standing on a stool with the dress on while she pined it all around. I do not recall any other clothing items being added. However,  I am sure I would not have objected had this turn into a dress-up event. Why did I not ask?  

With permission from Stana at 
http://www.femulate.org/
Exactly why this happened I will never know other than just being "mommy's helper". I was still quite a bit shorter than my mother so don't think my seven or eight years old self was that much of a help. Without doubt, I remember it as a compelling event, thus contributing to it being long remembered. 

I am sure the crossdressing/transgender seed was already planted before this happened. Before this, I do remember secretively playing and becoming proficient in walking in my mothers heels. So, this event was not the spark that ignited the fire. 

How about you. Do you have any similar events in your memory closet? Please share.   



   

Saturday, April 18, 2026

Thursday, April 16, 2026

Creative Shopping...


 


I love this Lauren Graphic Short-Sleeve Top. Graphic T-shirts have a feminine differential depending on message and women's t-shirts have a very distinctive cropped arm opening. I loved it, so purchased it about a month ago at Macys full price of $79.00. Buyers remorse quickly set in knowing that was too much for a simple tee. Back it went.  

Today it was on sale for $47.70 and still a bit overpriced, but semi-justifiable. This is where the creative part comes in. My size was now sold out. Not to be deterred I found it in Woman's Plus 1X; much to large. However, I decided to try it on anyway. Turns out it draped beautifully and fits off-the-shoulder now. I love the feminine differential of off-the-shoulder. 

So, if I did not let my aversion to buying large get in the way. I would have missed out 1) better than full retail, and 2) a cute everyday feminine look.   

The Macys Ozula Denim Kitten Heel Sandals were ordered a few days ago, also on sale. I am updating by heels moving toward lower heel height. These are described as "Kitten Heels Heel Height: 2.5 inches".  Sadly, my beloved three and a half heels are becoming hazardous. I have several pair in this "Kitten Heel" style and can actually wear for extended evenings out. I have not receive these yet so will let you know how they work out.  


Think shopping creatively; out of the box sometimes...  

Wednesday, April 15, 2026

Back To The 50's


 Beauty never goes out of style - Escape to the 50's

Tuesday, April 14, 2026

The Bumbling Clowns

 

The Raw Story: These bumbling clowns were so inept Iran's hardliners could barely keep straight faces 


Opinion by John Casey 

There is an old American idiom for a group so collectively inept they couldn’t organize a one-car parade, as another axiom goes. We call them the Three Stooges. They were a legendary comedy trio famous for their chaotic, physical slapstick and for being a cultural shorthand for lovable but total incompetence.

After watching JD Vance (Mo), Steve Witkoff (Curly), and Jared Kushner (Larry) stumble out of Islamabad empty-handed, having failed to end a six-week war, reopen the Strait of Hormuz, or extract a single meaningful concession from Iranian hardliners, the comparison feels apropos.


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My Question: Are we or the world better off today than we were six weeks ago?

Monday, April 13, 2026

Born A Girl...



What an interesting question.  In business I did take full advantage of male privilege. So being born a girl would have change much. However, today, I have seen clouds from both sides as Joni Mitchell sings. 

Here is a real shocker; women do not get the same respect. My example: working as Rhonda there were meeting I had express an interest in attend thus having expertise in the area being discussed. Was I taken seriously and invited; NO.

That is not the only instance either... 

Moreover, being my version of a woman socially is enjoyable. I get to be more outgoing, some would ever call flirtatious. There is so much variety in choosing a look for the day. Maybe age, or look, courtesy is shown in some situations which always makes me smile.  

In the past, I have been accused of picking and choosing what social presence is best for the situation. That is correct. However, not so much today being perceived / seen as female most of the time. Doors are opened for me and I am waved to go ahead in lines, simply for being a woman. In some circles, chivalry still exist. I do not correct that perception and do "Enjoy the fun of being a girl".

Do not underestimate female advantage or the fun that can be had.  Escape!


Tell us your experience?