There is something timeless about a crisp white linen button-down shirt paired with high-waisted denim shorts. The shirt feels breathable against the skin while the relaxed fit skims the body without clinging, and the shorts offer a modest length that hits just above the knee. Roll the sleeves once or twice and leave a few buttons open at the neck for that easy, undone vacation energy. A tan leather belt cinches the waist and creates a clean visual break between the two pieces. Flat beige sandals keep the outfit grounded and walkable, while a woven basket tote with a colorful scarf tied around the handle adds personality without extra effort. This is the kind of look that transitions seamlessly from a morning coffee run to an afternoon of sightseeing, looking intentional yet never over-styled.
Here is a really good way to wear shorts. I have two pairs on denim shorts and two pairs of white. I have worn both with t-shirts and see the above to be a classic look. If you have the legs, then why not!
Flats rule! Most any color sandals and wedges would work. Just stay away from super high heels. That would be dressing for a whole different audience.
The old money aesthetic has found its most natural home with women over 50. It's a style that doesn't chase trends or demand attention—it simply radiates confidence through impeccable tailoring, quality fabrics, and timeless silhouettes. Think of Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy's minimalist neutrals, Princess Diana's polished off-duty looks, or the quiet glamour of a well-cut blazer that fits like it was made for you. For women who have spent decades refining their taste, old money outfit ideas for women over 50 celebrate exactly what you already know: true elegance whispers rather than shouts. This guide brings together 35 complete head-to-toe looks built around structured blazers, flowing midi dresses, cashmere knits, pleated skirts, and the kind of accessories that feel like heirlooms—all designed to help you dress with grace, ease, and undeniable sophistication.
For over two decades, research has established that the prevalence of suicide thoughts and attempts among transgender people is elevated compared to cisgender people. This report is one in a series of reports utilizing data from the U.S. Trans Survey (USTS), the largest survey of transgender people in the U.S., examining risk factors for suicide thoughts and attempts among USTS respondents. In this report, we utilize data from the 2022 USTS, including analyses for adults and those aged 16 to 17, to provide updated findings and examine age differences in risk factors that transgender people have in common with cisgender people, such as in self-reported health and substance use. We also provide new analyses of age group differences in risk factors unique to transgender people, such as family rejection and access to gender-affirming care. In addition, we provide analyses of new topics included in the 2022 USTS, such as the impacts of the COVID-19 pandemic, experiences while online, substance use and recovery, conversion therapy, violence and harassment, and the impact of state policy environments. We limit our analyses to suicide thoughts and attempts reported in the year prior to the 2022 USTS.
Overall, we find that 38.9% of all 2022 USTS respondents reported seriously thinking about suicide in the year prior to the survey, and 5.3% of respondents reported attempting suicide during that time. Our findings are consistent with prior research and confirm that the elevated prevalence of suicide thoughts and attempts among transgender people lies at the intersection of elevated exposure to common risk factors for suicide, plus exposure to added risk factors that uniquely affect transgender people.
Key Findings
Exposure to violence resulted in the largest disparity in suicide thoughts and attempts in this report, comparing those who did and did not experience it. Those who reported being physically attacked because they are transgender in the year prior to the survey were 27.2 percentage points more likely to seriously consider suicide (65.1%) and 15.3 percentage points more likely to attempt suicide (20.0%) in the past year, compared to those who did not experience this (37.9% and 4.7%, respectively).
Prevalence of suicide thoughts and attempts was highest among youth compared to older age groups across all topics covered. Salient risk factors for youth include rejection from families and religious communities, including exposure to conversion therapy, economic vulnerabilities, and lack of access to gender-affirming health care.
Related to COVID-19, those who worked only in person in the year prior to the survey had a significantly higher prevalence of past-year suicide thoughts (40.5%) and attempts (5.7%) compared to those who only worked remotely (29.0% and 2.9%, respectively) or who worked a hybrid schedule (30.3% and 3.5%, respectively).
Experiencing harassment is related to a higher risk for suicide thoughts and attempts compared to those who did not experience harassment, regardless of whether harassment occurred in person or online. We found that those who experienced harassment online were as likely to report past-year suicide thoughts (49.5%) and attempts (8.3%) compared to those who reported being verbally harassed in person (50.7% and 9.0%, respectively).
We found that any exposure to conversion therapy, regardless of who conducted it, whether it was through therapy, counseling, or a program, religiously affiliated or not, whether it was related to gender identity or sexual orientation, resulted in a significantly higher prevalence of past-year suicide thoughts and attempts for those exposed to it. Notably, 85.4% of those aged 16 to 17 who attended a conversion therapy camp reported past-year suicide thoughts, and 36.9% in that age group who were exposed to sexual orientation conversion therapy reported past-year suicide attempts.
We found that those who live in states that have positive public policy environments for transgender people and comprehensive non-discrimination statutes have lower prevalence of suicide thoughts compared to those residing in negative public policy states. For instance, 41.6% of those who lived in states with negative public policy environments for transgender people seriously thought about suicide in the past year, compared to 35.8% of those residing in states with the most positive policy environments.
Those who thought about moving from states because of state laws that negatively target transgender people, but did not move, were more likely than those who never thought about moving to report past-year suicide thoughts (44.0% vs. 31.6%) and attempts (5.1% vs. 3.9%).
Findings from this report suggest that strategies to reduce suicidality among transgender people must involve reducing the heightened exposure that transgender people have to common risk factors, such as economic hardship and housing instability, as well as minority stressors and structural stigma, such as discrimination, violence, and hostile policy environments. Future research needs to include further examination of age group differences among transgender people to understand why they exist. Applying a life course perspective to transgender people’s identity development and gender affirmation milestones would help elucidate unique risk factors for different age cohorts.
We also need research to provide a better understanding of the impacts of specific laws and policies (e.g., restrictive state laws) on transgender people’s health and well-being. Current research is needed on how state laws and policies are impacting transgender people’s relocation across states and how relocation from or remaining in negative state environments impacts health and well-being over time. Future research is also needed regarding the mental health impacts of remote vs. in-person work for transgender people, among other topics.
Few combinations feel as luxuriously vacation-ready as white linen wide-leg pants paired with an off-the-shoulder blue top. The pants offer a voluminous, fluid silhouette that breathes beautifully and resists wrinkling enough to look presentable straight out of a suitcase. The off-the-shoulder neckline frames the collarbone and shoulders in a way that feels feminine and fresh without being overly revealing. Espadrilles add height and a distinctly coastal flair, while a straw tote and simple hoop earrings finish the look. This outfit belongs on the Amalfi Coast, at a harbor-side lunch, or strolling through a seaside village.
From time to time I get request to mention events happening in my local area so local and out-of-towners can make plans and attend. I will be at this event Saturday Night.
The Stonewall Ball, set for June 20 at the Kravis Center in West Palm Beach, will transform the venue into a speakeasy-inspired celebration complete with cocktails, entertainment, dancing, and a few surprises organizers are keeping secret.
Tickets: https://compasslgbtq.com/stonewalltickets/ or call 561-533-9699
Prohibition - That's the theme of this year's Stonewall Ball, Compass' signature Pride Month fundraiser.
But organizers aren't referring to alcohol.
“This time they're trying to prohibit communities and people from being able to live our lives,” said Michael Riordan, Director of External Affairs for Compass Community Center.
Organizers say the Lavender Lounge theme draws parallels between the Prohibition Era and what many queer people are experiencing today as lawmakers across the country target LGBTQ rights, drag performances, diversity initiatives, and other forms of visibility.
A century ago, politicians wanted to prohibit alcohol. Today, some seem more interested in prohibiting drag shows, library books, and even pronouns.
"We're kind of going through another prohibition era. It's a homage to the speakeasies that were around in the 1920s and 1950s that housed a lot of LGBTQ folks," said Lety Gonzalez. "So it's kind of like an honor to them as well."
During Prohibition, when alcohol was illegal in the United States, speakeasies were hidden bars where people gathered behind closed doors to drink, socialize, and evade the law. Many became havens for communities pushed to the margins, including LGBTQ people.
My Note: Sorry a bit of a repeat from Tuesday. My view count is so low I believe my blog has become irrelevant to the extent I am only writing for myself. So I will.
Last Sunday's event were the ultimate distraction for what we all are starting to know is in the Epstein files. Trump is using his bazaar actions (war, destroying WH, blood sport on the WH Lawn, etc.) to keep everyone distracted so he can live long enough to escape the shocking revelations to come.
I agree fully with Sheryl Crow's sentiments:
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Sheryl Suzanne Crow (born February 11, 1962) is an American singer-songwriter, producer, actress, and guitarist. She is noted for her idealistic and optimistic lyrics, and incorporation of various genres into her rock-oriented sound, including blues, country, folk, and pop.
Crow has sold over 50 million albums worldwide and has won nine Grammy Awards from 32 nominations. In 2023 she was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame
Sheryl Crow did not hold back when she published an Instagram story Monday about what she thought of the UFC Freedom 250 event on the White House’s South Lawn the day before — that just so happened to take place on President Donald Trump’s 80th birthday.
What are Espadrilles: Espadrilles are a simple, stylish shoe that is nowadays made of jute fabric. Jute is a vegetable fiber from the Corchorus plant that grows in countries such as India and Bangladesh. It's a versatile material used to make twine, sacks, curtains, and, of course, Espadrilles.
Espadrilles are the most comfortable, fashionable and versatile shoes anyone can wear. And they are the classic collection of every wardrobe. You cannot miss such a collection during your summer holidays, and they are known for their flexibility. Espadrille sandals have the most intricate braid designs that look cool for neutral colored outfits. Do you love to add one to your shoe collection? Then take a look at the perfect espadrilles shoes waiting for you!!
Espadrilles are the first choice for summer since they are made of jute rope, and most of them are open-toed to keep your feet sweat-free. Here are some common types of espadrilles
Espadrille Flats: are classic espadrilles, that have a flat sole with rope detail around the exterior outsole.
Espadrille Wedges: the most popular espadrille style for women either closed-toe or peep-toe with a rope covered wedge. Classic espadrille wedges ribbon ties at the ankles, but these can also have an ankle strap instead.
Espadrille Flatforms: sandals or shoes with flatform sole with rope detailing
Hybrid Espadrilles: are shoes that add espadrilles details to another shoe type. For example, an oxford, loafer, or sneaker with an espadrille sole, platform or wedge.
Among these shoes, Classic Espadrilles wedges are the most popular ones; since they provide great support and display more beautiful braid designs than other espadrilles styles. CONCLUSION
Espadrilles are the most comfortable, fashionable and versatile shoes anyone can wear. And they are the classic collection of every wardrobe. You cannot miss such a collection during your summer holidays, and they are known for their flexibility. Espadrille sandals have the most intricate braid designs that look cool for neutral colored outfits. Do you love to add one to your shoe collection? Then take a look at the perfect espadrilles shoes waiting for you!!
Ilia Topuria was taken to the hospital after fighting in Trump's White House UFC event Later Topuria was taken to the hospital.
HuffPost: American Justin Gaethje became the undisputed UFC lightweight champion when Ilia Topuria’s corner stopped the “ultra-violent” main event at the end of the fourth round, ESPN reported.
Or as the White House press pool put it, “Topuria’s face was beaten to such a bloody pulp that he was declared incapable of continuing.”
Gaethje got a congratulatory handshake from Trump for his upset victory. A “busted up” Topuria was taken to the hospital, UFC boss Dana White said, speculating that he had a broken orbital bone
Calibrating our 250 Birthday, is this what America has become?
AI Follow-up: Ilia Topuria did not officially suffer a concussion, but he sustained a non-displaced fracture in both orbital bones during his title fight against Justin Gaethje. Following the corner stoppage, he was transported to a Washington D.C. hospital for a precautionary CT scan, which confirmed the fractures but ruled out the need for surgery.
"Suzy Q's Diner" is not in Paris; although I can dream. It is close by home and has beautiful red umbrellas for outdoor dining. Good food, good service. There is something special about the ambiance on a spring morning outdoors sipping my tea.
Get out. Escape! Be a regular and enjoy being a girl. Pick a chic outfit, or not, and start your day imagining you are in a Paris sidewalk cafe.
Both photos were taken in the last two weeks at my local mall. I had a return, so after a Dr. appointment and breakfast I dropped in. Yes, the photo on the left was what I wore for my doctor visit. I am typically only about 10 minutes away from the mall, so that was last stop that morning.
I receive questions from time-to-time about how do I dress every day or when just running errands? Have I transitioned? Clothing wise, there is not much of a male wardrobe that still exist. As I write about the "clothing differentials", I try and add something feminine even when not overtly seeking an overall all female look. I let the audience choose and usually sense a female acceptance.
It is very difficult to escape the now long hair. The position of the pony tail does have designation, when not wanting a total feminine look.
80's Executive Business Woman
Jeans, shorts, flats, sneakers, hair in a pony tail. Sometime I wear a skirt or dress if having dinner out in Palm Beach; heels optional. Make up minimal, unless I am dressing for an evening outing or event; foundation, lipstick, eyes done, jewelry. Makeup and hair take about 15 minutes. It took many years to shed my coveted executive business woman look. Then, after work when out of town, I would dress and have dinner out and many times stroll the mall after; way over-dressed without question. I likely attracted far more attention then, than today.
Today, I love this version of myself. She is comfortable in her skin and her presentation. At peace. No escape necessary, as I slip into the land of femininity un-noticed. A permanent resident? Not completely.
However, this is my version of transitioning. Self-acceptance!
For most women, wearing women's clothing in public is not a big deal. It's something we do every day without so much as batting an eyelid. We can also wear men's clothing out in public without too much trouble either. When was the last time someone took issue with a woman wearing a sweater and jeans, for example (besides in some whiny online forum posting, and these posts don't count as reality anyway)?
For men, however, the act of wearing women's clothing in public is something of an act of defiance. It breaks the rules. It shocks onlookers. It draws furtive glances and giggles.
Double Standard
Not all of these things are bad. Most of us grow up within this double standard, never questioning it. I know I certainly didn't until I actually met a man who wore lingerie and began to see the world through his eyes.
It's easy to judge people for not seeing the inequality, but the fact of the matter is, as humans we tend to see only those things which affect us. You could call it being self-centered, but in reality it is probably more a result of the fact that there is just no real way to comprehend all of the social issues in the world at one time. We only have so much brain space, and much of that is taken up with the task of not falling over when we walk.
So then, when we first see a man wearing women's clothing—be it a skirt, a dress, some panties, or even just carrying a purse—our little minds are blown.
Types of Reactions
Some people react to this change with anger and try to reject it. 'It's wrong', they say, or 'It's gay'. (Thereby rejecting the behavior by associating it with a group which has traditionally been marginalized and stigmatized.)
Other people are more on the fence. 'Huh. Okay. I guess if he wants to it's okay.'
Still other people love the idea and embrace it fully. There's some evidence that there are genetic markers associated with being receptive to change. People highly receptive to change are generally liberal in political outlook and don't get too upset when they encounter worldviews markedly different from their own. People who are not receptive to change tend to become defensive or aggressive when presented with views, ideas or realities which conflict with what they have come to accept. It doesn't make the behavior any less bigoted or wrong, but it does explain the logical disconnect which occurs when people become outrageously upset over things that really do not affect them (ie, when men wear women's clothing.)
Of course, the genetics of temperament only indicates how we feel about a subject on a reptilian, primal level. It is not an excuse for ongoing bigotry, or for hurting those around us by enforcing our limited worldview upon them. When we understand the motivations which drive us, we have the chance to overcome them, live a happier life, and leave others to live happy lives as well.
Much to the reporter’s consternation the "60 Minutes" staff have become the news for the last two weeks. True journalism as we know it is under attack. To deny this one only wants one side of a story told and is unwilling to be open-minded and listen. George Orwell's most famous quote on journalism is:
"Journalism is printing what someone else does not want printed: everything else is public relations."
I would like to add to that by defining propaganda: It is the systematic dissemination of biased or misleading information designed to manipulate public opinion, attitudes, or behavior. Or, as Orwell also called it “public relations”.
According to Google AI: The purpose of “60 Minutes” has been to deliver hard-hitting investigative journalism, agenda-setting newsmaker interviews, and in-depth profiles through a magazine-style format. Since 1972 I believe it has upheld the purpose. I always came away, better informed to make my own decision on the facts presented.
There is a “60 Minutes” segment in their early archives that left me in tears.
I am dyslexic. I went through my primary school years knowing something was wrong (different) in the way I saw and read words. Reading out loud was torment for both me and anyone that had to listen. My written papers typically looked like someone had bleed-out with red marks everywhere. I endured being called “retard” and sniggers when I had to read before the class.
A great analogy is to understand dyslexia is to language/words that color blindness is to perceive color. That is a great and common way to describe it! Just as color blindness is a difference in how the eyes perceive color, dyslexia is a difference in how the brain processes language. In fact, doctors in the past literally referred to dyslexia as "word-blindness".
Up until the airing of that “60 Minutes” segment I had never understood dyslexia or even heard the word. That was my first realization that I was not the only one and there was nothing wrong with me. It was explained that those of us with dyslexia just processed language differently. In fact, dyslexia is common and, in some ways, enhances logic and critical thinking.
I had already graduated from college and was excelling in a new, to the 70’s, career of system engineering.
Watching that "60 Minutes" segment I literally sobbed. It was the revelation of knowing why I was different.
“60 Minutes” for its decimation of information has always held a special place in my heart. Many consider it to be the gold standard of investigative journalism. The loss of that source of information and many times it’s “truth-to-power” approach, will be a tragic loss to journalism as we know it today.
Scott Pelley on Bari Weiss and His Last Days at ‘60 Minutes’ The Interview
Pelly: "You become a Journalist because you love the country. There is no democracy without journalism".
We are dedicated to building a community where everyone in Palm Beach County can live free from discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity.
Leading the Charge
The Palm Beach County Human Rights Council is on the front lines, ensuring the rights of the LGBTQ+ community are protected. We provide the education, advocacy, and outreach necessary to build a future where discrimination is a thing of the past.
Tuesday was a rainy / stormy afternoon. What better to do than go to the mall. I had a $20 coupon that needed some love. My Talbots store was almost empty and I had a good fun talk with the manager. I had worked with her before. I worked at Talbots about three months.
I love there merchandise. Although without sales and markdowns there clothing has become almost un-justifiable. The skirts above were $89 and $99 each. There was a buy-one-get-half-off going and I had the $20 coupon. Still I am going back-and-forth with buyers remorse. I will give it a day or so.
Still they are beautiful casual / dress skirts and the scoop neck top I already have. The gingham item is a skort and a lot longer on me than the on-line model's photo. The fit size 8 are a vanity sizing.
Still the fun was trying them both and taking selfies in their full-length mirror. Being able to do this would have been just fantasy in my early CD years. Now pure, live fun.
