Concession - A Well Heeled Decision

 

As a woman in her 70s, I’ve heard it all—“Aren’t those heels uncomfortable?” “You still wear those?” "When are you going to give up those heels?" However, here’s an absolute truth: I am never giving up my heels. They make me feel confident, feminine, and put-together.  I know I am not alone. 

That said, I am learning to compromise especially when it comes to heel height and safety. Whether you’re 30 or 70, your heel height should complement your lifestyle, comfort,  and personal style. Most importantly - physical safety.

First, "well heeled" appears to be a misremembering of the idiom "well-heeled," which means wealthy or prosperous, referring to people who can afford good shoes that are not worn down. 

Let's note my illustration above. I consider the 2.75, 3 reasonable and 3.75 marginally reasonable for everyday heels. The other are for show or fantasy. These can be worn, but may convey the wrong message or even can be dangerous.  

  

The last time I wore 3.75 heels was at an University Awards Program in 2022. I, along with others were designated "Alumni Stars".  And yes, I did walk the riser stairs / platform with them. At my table, I believe more women commented about my grace in heels than my accomplishment; that was ok. I am not saying that will be my last wearing of those Lauren pumps, but likely. I am keeping them as a fond memory. 

Rhonda with VCU University President
and Engineering School Dean

I still have many 3" pumps that I do occasionally wear and depending on width and snugness, I can make then work. Always taking into account circumstances, I pre-plan any restaurant walk-in or event standing involved. My go to pumps seem to have become the 2.75 heel height for now. Maybe for safety reasons because my peripheral vision is not good. Overall conclusion - there are times where the risk seems to exceed my vanity, especially in low light.

After all, great shoes take you great places and are a great feminine differential. I have no plans of slowing down anytime soon.

How about you?  Are you making concessions?