Wednesday, October 20, 2021

Woman Who Shops in the Men’s Department

 “It's more than just the sizing and pricing—sometimes what’s designed for men simply looks more modern and not as precious.”

By Leah Bourne

For Glamour Style

A men's suit jacket is the
 perfect oversized fit.

Shopping for clothes that fit hasn’t always been the easiest task for me, which is why I'm a shameless patron of men's clothing stores. I'm almost six feet tall, so buying pants that are long enough is a challenge—let’s just say I’ve been wearing culottes long before they were cool. 

My shoulders are broad and my arms are long, so buying jackets that don’t make me look like a squished-up hot dog is its own special treat too. And, to complicate matters, I wear a size 11 shoe. It’s gotten easier in recent years to find footwear in my size, but trust me when I say a surprising number of brands seem to assume no woman could possibly wear shoes larger than a 10.

When I was a teenager, my height and frame were hard to deal with at times. I was embarrassed by it, often left thinking that I was somehow less feminine because I'm not petite or super slim.

But over the years I've grown into myself, and along the way I've discovered one simple style trick that makes being tall—with broad shoulders and size 10 in clothing—a hell of a lot easier: I voraciously shop men's clothing stores.

It started naturally enough: Most people steal clothes from their mom; I steal clothes from my stepdad including—but not limited to—his button-down shirts (I love that they're actually oversize on me), an old tuxedo jacket that I wear with just about everything I own (from sweatpants to gowns), and a brown felt fedora he used to wear to work in the 1980s (I wear it with jeans and T-shirts).

From there, it was a hop, a skip, and a jump to regularly browsing the men's department at stores and online—I now buy vintage men’s Levi’s on eBay, because why spend $200 on designer “boyfriend jeans” supposedly designed for women when I can buy the real thing for 20 bucks?

Shopping this way has led me to discover some of my all-time favorite wardrobe staples. Brooks Brothers’s noniron shirts are now my daily go-to (seriously, these shirts are the absolute best, and no, the retailer isn’t paying me to say that). Champion sweatshirts, J.Crew men’s belts, and men’s leather jackets are on regular outfit rotation in my closet. One of my favorite bags was even designed for men: a Montblanc portfolio that I wear as a clutch (it’s big and roomy and fits all my stuff—seriously, why don’t brands design women’s bags like this?).

It's more than just the sizing and the pricing that draws me to men's clothes; it's that sometimes what's designed for men simply looks more modern and not as precious. (Button-down shirts, for example, are made without those dated rib cage seams women’s versions so often have, preventing a genuinely slouchy fit.)

There's a reason some of the hottest brands right now are offering gender-neutral collections—everyone from Diesel to Mother Denim to Zara. Increasingly, the casual clothes men and women want to wear are essentially the same.

Not all retailers, of course, have caught up. And until they do, I am more than happy to buy my oversize sweaters and button-downs in the men’s section, where the clothes actually fit me and are cheaper to boot.

Believe me when I say you don't need to be tall to find men’s pieces to love. Women of all sizes—even the most petite girls—can find cool pieces that provide a genuine effortlessness that's sometimes hard to come by in the ladies' department.

1 comment:

  1. Thanks for the article, Rhonda.
    I went and read the original link as well.
    IMHO, this young ladies first outfit needs some work and skill of a good alterations seamstress.

    The jacket needs to be taken in at the back (darts) to show the ladies natural curves and hip-line.
    Also, the sleeves of the jacket need to be shortened to show some wrist and forearm along with some necessary 'bangles and bling'.
    The jacket needs some shortening-- If it were any longer, it could have possibly been altered into a 'suit-dress' (I am crazy for suit-dresses!).
    The pants 'break' over the shoe because they are too long is all wrong and gives the pants a baggy 'sack' look- and not in a good way. The hem of the pants could be raised in order to 'show off some ankle', or the excess pants leg material could be folded into some really 'out-scale' cuffs that would really show off some style...
    Both alterations would give the overall look of the outfit a more vertical line and show off her height and swagger.
    The most important part of the alterations is that they are relatively inexpensive.
    I happened upon an (almost) perfectly sized dark grey mens pinstripe suit that I intended to use in 'guy mode'. The zipper was broken and the pants legs and the seat need alteration and but the suit was priced at $10.00, yet was practically new condition.
    The same shopping trip also scored a 'yellow with black art designs' summer dress--that too needed alterations.
    I first showed up to the alterations store, 'enfemme' for a sizing with the dress.
    I drove home and minutes later I got into 'enhomme' mode and presented myself to the same lady seamstress for a proper sizing of the new-found suit...
    When I pre-paid for the suit alterations, the same elderly Asian seamstress lady squinted at me with a sideways glance and asked:
    "You-, you just in here earlier?".
    I replied with a big smile:
    "YUP! That was me!"
    She replied: "You looked GOOD"!
    (thanks for the rush, lady..)
    Both alterations, including the zipper replacement were a very reasonable $40.00...
    Easily a great bargain as well as a fun adventure!