The definition of androgynous is partly male and partly female in appearance; of indeterminate gender (sex). According to Wikipedia: "Androgynous traits are those that either have no gender value or have some aspects generally attributed to the opposite gender." I like that....
I am always looking for combinations that will work anytime and be androgynous. Whether it be going to Starbucks, the grocery store, or the mall. Sorry the prom dress, although beautiful, is not for everyday. Blending in is always the best look for those of a certain age; however looking put together is a reasonable goal.
The above two tops are from Amazon: POGTMM Women's Casual Raglan Short Sleeve Patchwork Striped Cotton Shirts Loose T-Shirt and LALABEE Women's Deep V-Neck Short Sleeve Basic Henley Button T-Shirt. Both very reasonable and the latter comes in 15 different colors. I have them both ordered, so will let you know how they work out. The jeans and canvas sneakers can be found most anywhere.
Make them guess - Enjoy your androgynous ESCAPE.