Friday, June 17, 2016

If Not Now...


The act or habit of procrastinating, or putting off or delaying, especially something requiring immediate attention.


We all know what it means. -  We all do it.   Scarlett O'Hara in Gone With the Wind said it best as her world just crumbled; "Tomorrow I'll think of some way... after all, tomorrow is another day." 


I will be the first to admit that procrastination is a way has ruled my life.  I wish only the transgender part but even with my successes in business and my personal life, options and actions would have worked better had I not put off decisions.  


Yes being transgender has complicate my life but as I have said it has add much as well.  So why did I put off "getting out" and being open?  Fear make procrastination justifiable, however once you find out that your fears are unwarranted then you must accept that valuable time have been wasted.   Escape before it is too late.   


Advice to My Younger Self:  "If not now... then when."