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I played football as a kid. Our county had a peewee league for the 12 and under with about 6 teams representing various communities. Being small, and somewhat of a sissy, my mother had many reservations. See my post "Growing Up The Chameleon". Although shy I learned that I was fearless. At nine years old I would do as I was told and hit and tackle boys twice my size. That did not go unnoticed.
As a newly minted rough-and-tumble boy, I found myself now accepted by my peers. Wow; had I turned a corner? No, the girl within was still there and never left, although I did enjoy my newfound acceptance. The next winter I had a growth spurt (early for boys) and got more play where brute fearlessness was expected. I noticed that during practice other boys avoided me and would move their places in line to avoid going one-on-one with me. I was no longer the sissy of the team. My coach mentored me and the next year, being the sports writer for our county newspaper, choose me for the "All County" team.
I played in high school; Freshman and VJ, and was one of the team co-captains. My position was defensive middle linebacker and safety. I was fast and could tackle. Still fearless, but now dwarfed by many teammates who had now received their teen growth spurt. Tackling became more difficult and I started to recognize that sports may not be my calling.
After our final JV season game, 10th grade, the varsity coach took over our final practice to see who was coming his way for his next season. Never had I been involved in such a brutal practice. There were rumors about his practices. Our largest player and center had his nose brutally broken during a drill. The next day his face was a mess and never the same. Others limped in before the practice was over. I got the feeling the coach did not like me and set me up for an injury. He threw a very high pass for me to catch. Jumping up in the air, while still stretching with both arms up, I was tackled hard coming down breaking my collarbone. I looked up and the sadistic, SOB coach was laughing. I was in pain with weeks of recovery involved. I vowed to never play for him and did not. I was over football.
|William Munford Tuck Dillard|
May 20, 1950 - October 1, 1966
16 Year Old
I believe the coach was fired later that year, and the family's consolation was the school board named the high school stadium after their son. Three years earlier, after my last encounter with this coach, I predicted he would kill a player sooner or later.
Scientific American, January 6, 2023 stated this after the most recent Damar Hamlin’s collapse:
Football is a spectacle where excessive violence is mundane, because hits that cause injuries are a constant occurrence, and spectators are desensitized to it. Consumers of the sport assume players will withstand any bodily affront, so they are shocked when a player’s physical limits are exceeded, often on very public stages. People with a vested interest in professional football rationalize excessive violence in this structured space, as well as the ones that encompass college, high school, and peewee play, all because they assume that rules, equipment, and regulations exist to prevent death. But this is false protection. While this form of entertainment has been normalized, Hamlin’s injury demonstrates that ordinary violence has potentially deadly consequences…
Football brought me out of a shell and for that I am grateful. Maybe a safer alternative could have worked just as well. Today’s question is, "how much longer will we normalize this violence for entertainment?" Because of timely and expert medical care, Damar Hamlin survived. Surely this will not be the last such incident.
This post is close to home. My father was a big football guy at his tiny high school. He wanted his sons to be likewise. I still recall him singing while working on his farm, “You gotta be a football hero to get along with the beautiful girls!” My brothers followed him and did well in several ways, but me, not so much.ReplyDelete
I tried football but I sustained a shoulder dislocation that ended my football career early. I concealed the injury to leave home and join the Army at age 17. Army life soon aggravated the injury. I was in surgery within a few months. It was near the end of the Vietnam War, when the Army needed cannon fodder more than they needed perfect specimens. I was able to complete my time and somehow survived. But that shoulder injury has plagued me, and the taxpayers through disability payments, for the rest of my life. I eventually got my PhD in Engineering and prospered but that shoulder remains troublesome.
You are right, Rhonda, the sooner we defund football and similar forms of violent entertainment, the better we all will be.
Defund them?..what?..football is their choice. In a world where we desperately want to be excepted of who we are, you want to do away with someone else’s lifestyle? I want others to be respectful for my choices and how I dress. I respect others for their choices. Football or whatever.ReplyDelete
We often restrict choices that minors make. That is why we have a drinking age, for example. Most high school participants are minors. Depending on the definition of a minor, so are many college participants.Delete
Boxing was a popular sport a hundred years ago. It is rarely seen now. It ceased because young men, often minors, were being seriously injured for a lucrative entertainment spectacle. People could no longer justify it. Football is in the same realm and growing worse.
I say defund because money is driving this. Football is often the more profitable of only two sports that make money at many schools and where money flows freely. Who is the most highly paid state employee in many US states? A state university football coach. Do not get me started talking about gambling money. Remove the money and the practice of risking serious injury to young bodies, often of minors, that then suffer lifelong consequences will atrophy.
Abby thank you for the comment. RhondaReplyDelete
A well written piece as I definitely identify with it. I played in the '60's in peewee through high school. Every coach thought he was the next Vince Lombardi and sadism was the norm. My body now suffers the affects with arthritic knees (completely severed ACL and torn cartilage), a right elbow with limited range of motion from impact trauma and on and on. The sick thing is that I enjoyed many aspects of playing. Mostly the shared sacrifice with teammates to achieve a common goal.ReplyDelete
anonymous 10:21 hits on the major problem with football--just look at all of the retired NFL players who are wrecks due to all of the punishment they received.ReplyDelete
Yet Anon 10:12 is also correct. We have too many in this country with a mild Taliban like attitude that is if they don't like something it should be banned. There are many examples of this eg. we don't have sports gambling because some guy runs an anti gambling outfit. doesn't matter that our state (Florida) has millions wagered on the NFL illegally. What could we accomplish with that kind of revenue?